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Porn - Separating Reality From Fantasy
by terpfan101, November 2, 2005 2:51 AM

Pornography is something that can be used to help people get sexually aroused. There is little harm in viewing porn in moderation. However, with so many people watching porn, the audience, especially the youngest viewers, may not interpret what is real and what is fake in porn.

I want you to picture a porno and porn stars. What characteristics come to mind? Most likely you thought of DD breasts, extremely thin figure, and generally "hot". The male usually has huge muscles, a big penis, and always gets the girl. Most people would understand that most men and women don't look like this.

And then there is the act of sex; in porn it is often the same and finishes with a cumshot on the girls face. Also sex is central in porn while a couple doesn't have to have sex every time they have an encounter.

Another issue is that of protection. In most porn films, the guy doesn’t use a condom and there is no mention of birth control or STDs.

While communication is part of a healthy sex life, porn couples usually don't say much before, during, or after they have sex. Intimacy is important for many real couples, but it is rare in porn.

So to the males, don’t ever expect for a partner to be willing to swallow your cum, let you give her a facial, smack her during sex, completely shave her pubic hair, have huge boobs, and be extremely skinny.

To the females, understand that you don’t have to do things that are shown in porn if you are uncomfortable with it. Also keep in mind that most men will not have a penis over six inches and be extremely muscular.

If you are able to separate what is real and what is not in porn, then you should be able to watch it and still have a good sex life.

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