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	touch84: emotions are my future

	boxocereal: Not a 100% I don't think..

	BriBri_01509: Yes.

	goinnowhereslow: I find nothings 100%, so no.

	Talos1: I do have goals for myself, though I am not sure if they will be fulfilled. Life throws too many curveballs to be able to predict my fate.

	kelsoca: finishing my undergrad tops the list.

	ixi: Yes. Be married to Paul. Own Toyota Camrys for the rest of my life. lol...be able to write music, meaning, have the time to do so.

	PORSCHER: My future is 95% clear now although it isn't what I wanted but anyways, it's fair enough so far. Still it will be really fair after I get a Porsche! :P

	chewbaccasgirl: yeah i want to be in the navy and live in japan. ive been lookin forward to it since i was 8 so it will come true cuz i put my mind to it for a long time

	HopeSpringsEternal: I'm getting a hybrid Honda, other than that... I'm still thinking.

	apacolypse05: I know that before I die I will own a 1969 Shelby GT 500. I will have a loving spouse that will love and support me and I the same to her.

	matteo716: yeah, wander around until i find the girl i dream about, and travel around the country and eventully the world hopefully ending up in hawaii or japan

	Eowyn_Athena: Getting married, and having children. And writing a book - though I don't know if I could call that 100% set.

	Duffman7: Member of the Blue Devils drum corps!

	mymindkillsme: Actually yes.. I plan to marry my boyfriend of a year and 9 months.. move to Indiana, and become a relator. I wanted to join the Navy but now I don't think I want too anymore. I want to have a family in a nice house, with a nice car.. nothing like really expensive just enough to make us happy. We also want ADT. :)

	madaboutjess: I would really like to make it in the music industry.

	rabababa: I have my career chosen and I have found the woman I want to spend my life with.

	Munkiebebop: paying of my student loans in the next 6 years

	stranger_with_candy: getting married and some of our plans

	punk4ever: I already have the spouse part figured out, but the rest is a mystery.

	springbreaker: Equal Opportunity brings Equal Responsibilities :)

	SmartJock: i have no problem with it

	boxocereal: **** the draft.

	Infinite_incongruence: If women fought so hard for equal rights, I think they should get each and every responsibility that men have.

	Talos1: I do not like the idea of women fighting and getting killed.

	MyTurnToFlogMolly: Equal rights means equal responsibilities.

	VolunteerFirefighter: they shouldnt be allow the fightin service is not for girls....It takes more than just shootin a enemy...think more of that....bottom line girls r not built like a man...I'm sry wasnt me who made girls...argue that wit God. Military is not just shootin an enemy...it is Humping couple of klicks with full packs on...100 lb or more. than after that than try goin into combat without a drama queen cryin that is so stressful...A soldier have to react at a sec. where to put his troops and coordinate attacks and mortar fire and at the same time keep his cool. it is proven a platoon with girls in it got more causlity than a platoon without girls in it...um...makes ya wonder eh?? Plus to say something bout what rabababa said. Yes Vietnam was a disastrous...u can thanx Johnson and senate and congress, but mostly Johnston. We did not enter the war to win...thats was our first mistake...The soldiers were fightin to win but the generals werent from top orders from the President. Plus the second problem was the media was tellin lies bout the whole war and puttin it on the news. We would've won the war IF we could've went over the DM line and into Laos. Witch we did alittle bit but secretly. We were wining anyways in da war cause every one American solder got killed or wounded we killed 10 of theirs. It was all politic battle, and the NVAs and the VCs knew how our people would react if they kill their prisoners and **** like that. They were playin wit the civilian minds. And they won....but back to the draft. If u talkin bout draftin girls in the service for nurses and intel...go right ahead...but drafted into combat rolls..I'm sry but thats wrong...hope u get what I'm sayin...This subject I love!!

	PORSCHER: Either you get them all their rights, like men, or don't give them any right at all so I think its fair.

	VolunteerFirefighter: want to know more what I think bout this subject tag me cause I can go on.lol I disagree with alot of people on this subject. but I stand my ground yes let the gals in but for the rear areas only neva up front. Its not how gals can shoot at the enemy, anyone can do it. but if a gal get shot its a guys instinct to try to rescue a girl more than if there was a guy get shot. plus when the action starts u gotta stay on ur toes and know where to move ur troops under pressure and bullets flyin, need to keep ur cool. Come on now girls thats not a place for a girl plus gals arent made up for war. they dont have the mental.....ok gettin long so I'll go. peace tag me if u want more.lol

	VolunteerFirefighter: lilpixiedez knows what she talkin bout when she says "But after further thinking, I realized that men were selected to be drafted into wars because of the simple 'manly' traits they posess. Men are naturally more physically fit and stronger compared to women, and they arn't as emotional. Even though I'd like to think that I would be tough and fight to my best abilities, I don't think most women could handle it due to our physical strength, emotions, and sensitivity." Thats the reason y girls should not be in active contact with the fighting....if they want to go in. let them like back in WWII the women were nurses, did stuff on the home front, etc. but neva up front. I disagree with rabababa draftin in Vietnam. the only reason y veitnam was a lost was we neva enter the battle to win, it was a "police action" plus President Johnson interferred with the planin the attacks. he is personallly to blame well alot of it at least...but thats a different subject I am gettin on.....I am a history buff and politic buff too. and I lllooove to read so this is my thing that I can say stuff that I know I am right on. sry i'm out spoken.

	Trojan23: woman are just as capable of shooting the enemy as well as the guy.....

	coolkid19878: Same as the answer below me

	rabababa: I don't think anyone should be drafted. What a mess that was during the Vietnam era.

	Munkiebebop: naw sorre, stupid i know, but yea i think it sounds great, y not have women in the draft, i men are...(although in all truth im against the draft all together)

	Munkiebebop: Earth worm jim

	chuckler: I'm actually very glad that the proposal for a new draft, which would have died in committee anyway, was voted down. If a draft is ever needed, however, I do believe that women should be included, but not given roles in direct combat.

	mdpais: no idea what ur talking about. sorry am from Goa

	lilpixiedez: When I first read this question, the first thing to pop in my mind was, "Yes! Women should most definatly be included in the draft!" But after further thinking, I realized that men were selected to be drafted into wars because of the simple 'manly' traits they posess. Men are naturally more physically fit and stronger compared to women, and they arn't as emotional. Even though I'd like to think that I would be tough and fight to my best abilities, I don't think most women could handle it due to our physical strength, emotions, and sensitivity.

	Timoo: I have conflicting beliefs on this... Any woman who wants should be put in the front lines but if you're drafting them just let them join the medics... It's not fair to women to throw them into a line of fire in my opinion based upon how both sexes deal with emotion; girls are more emotional and only those who would want to fight on the front lines could handle it in my opinion.

	DogDude: its about fucking time! then again i have a better idea, abolish the draft completely!

	numafia: ha yea i guess years of anti-double standard protests come to kick us in the ass :) it's beautiful.

	invader_tech: should*

	invader_tech: i dont think anyone whould be drafted, it sucks

	love_not_war: they should soo be included... women bitched and bitched and bitched! for equal rights... so they should have do to everything the same as men.. exept for the shit ONLY males can do..

	Cappucino: Your body, your choice. And Im going to get one.

	boxocereal: I like them except when they are completely covering the arms ..

	Talos1: In moderation, I might be able to tolerate them, though I prefer untainted skin.

	Agent69: On the right person, in the right place, and of the right size = sexy!

	PORSCHER: I don't like them.

	HopeSpringsEternal: As long as they're sparse and meaningful I'm all for em!

	Trojan23: I have a few but to be covered all over is nt my taste

	matteo716: getting one for my b-day even if i have to pay for it myself

	coolkid19878: I don't see anything wrong with them, Just be careful about putting names so you don't regret it later

	mymindkillsme: Your body.. I would like some, but I'm too chicken. I think if you want to do it, that's fine.

	Spoiled_lucy5: I think people should get them if they wish nobody has to have one but if you wish to be creative then go ahead a get one. I would if I had a friend to do it for me ( cause I'm under age and my state doesn't want them )

	rabababa: I don't like tattoos. I don't like piercings. Color me stuffy.

	Munkiebebop: thy can be ova done,or badly done, but i like em

	stranger_with_candy: I like them, they should have meaning

	changeling: People have gone totally overboard lately. In most cases, its not cool, its just mutilation. However, can sometimes be cool.

	chuckler: I don't want to get one (I hate needles), and I don't particularly like to see them on other people. And sorry, but girls who get them on their lower backs are just asking for trouble (although it may not be on purpose).

	mdpais: consented mutation of the body

	lilpixiedez: I like them enough to plan to get a few in my future. But once people push it past artistic reason, it's not attractive to me.

	Timoo: Don't want one, but if my partner has one that's fine as long as it isn't ugly and disturbing. That or if it says an ex-boyfriend's name, that would really turn me off to the girl.

	me_im_brit: It depends on what its of......a lot of tattoos are sexi

	Arielisapunk: yes please

	Everythings_relitive: wwwwwwwwwwweeeeeeeeeeeeeee

	Luckythe8th: I think they're cool. It depends, I mean excessively it can be pretty bad looking. But then again, anything over done tends to be bad.

	Eowyn_Athena: I think they can be anything from sexy to scary, depending on where, what and how many. I plan to get a little triquetra on my ankle when I turn 18.

	Cardtrickster: They are okay.

	chatternz: On other people fine I love the look of them. on me noway I can't imagen the look when I am all old and wrinkly plus theres that little thing with PAIN

	rogue_nymph: they're cool, but only if they have a meaning behind them. some people just get them because they look cool, like those stupid tribal designs.

	PRIMO: I think they are great. i have one on my upper left arm of The Grim Reaper. As long as your not covered in them.

	smccy: i love erm and i want one i was think a black snake or a black rose with a tiny bit of red in it what u fink?

	swedishfish302: Personally, my pain tolerance level isn't that high.

	boxocereal: I don't know.

	goinnowhereslow: Because they don't know how to express themselves calmly, they're usually the kind of people that speak with very little hint of intellect.

	PORSCHER: Yet another Stereotype =P

	HopeSpringsEternal: because people are insecure and wierd.

	Trojan23: b uz its easy to be a touch guy over the phone or on the net....

	matteo716: becuz it sounds better then saying, "dude ill punch the letters as i type this so hard ill break my keyboard in rage at you"

	Munkiebebop: haha, do people really do that? how odd

	mymindkillsme: To feel better about themselves.. why do 40 yr old men have sex with 9 yr old girls? People are wacked..

	mdpais: never used aim but i guess they do it coz that's the only place they're not afraid to say such stuff. i mean nobody's gonna beat them up on chat coz of what they said right?

	Timoo: I'd say because they believe they sound tough if they do that. It's as bad as the kids saying they'll hack you. It's a taunting mechanism people use external to the computers and internally; no purpose other than to get the other person angry.

	woodcock92627: to increase their ever-hungry egos

	Eowyn_Athena: Who knows. Maybe just for the hell of it.

	Cardtrickster: It stupidity.

	rogue_nymph: to look tough

	Chrissy0686: on AIM? that's unfair labeling. i use aim and i've never promised anyone either threats of bodily violence or harm.

	Texzen: People who use threats of bodily harm in general are ridiculous. It means you have absolutely nothing better to say. If you must resort to violence, then you've already lost...

	Wiccan_Seth7: There isn�t any point or sense to it. They just want to feel superior and high power, making themselves feel better about themselves when really they are just showing how weak they really are. To me when someone starts cursing at me or saying unnecessary rude remarks it just tells me the lecture they know and the lost of words they seem not to stumble on.

	springbreaker: yes, here in Toronto Ontario Canada

	SmartJock: yes, it was a blast

	boxocereal: No.

	PORSCHER: Nope.

	mymindkillsme: I went to the Excalabur, it was something like that. I loev Medieval times.

	BigMission: Ya, I was a kid and I loved it.

	mdpais: No but it sounds interesting

	punk4ever: Yes and it kicks ass!!!

	Timoo: Nope, I don't think I could ever go to one of those... It's not that I think it's a bad thing but I'd assume the majority of people who would attend would spoil the effect and I'd feel like I were at a Star Trek convention of some sort.

	Luckythe8th: I want to, is it anything like in that crappy Cable Guy movie?

	Eowyn_Athena: No, but I'd love to sometime.

	Cardtrickster: No,but they sound awesome.

	swedishfish302: About three times. I love those, they are so much fun!

	Texzen: No, but it sounds interesting ;).

	Wiccan_Seth7: Actually I have been to one of those, but I really want to go to one, Medieval really draws my attention.

	hiden_bhind_all_fears: Yea man that place is really fun went there for scool trip good stuff

	jessica_the_one_and_only: yah, for enlish but, make shur your in PROPER clothing they are reall asses about that

	boxocereal: I remember when I was about 12 and I was beginning to start feeling depression even though I didn't know that that's what it was at the time and I went through a stage of wanting to do nothing more than hanging out at my house watching tv/movies or whatever I lost interest in hanging out with friends or even just going outside .. I rarely got dressed and when friends did call me to hang out I felt like I was gonna go into a panic attack .. anyway one day I was watching The Price is Right and my mom comes into the room and I can't remember her exact words because it was so long ago but it was something like .. geez Muriah, you're turning into an old person you may as well shrivel up and die .. after she said that I did feel like doing exactly that...

	ixi: This crazy lady got so mad at me that this old dog I was walking peed on the edge of the grass in front of her house that she said, "what's wrong with you???" More like yelled.

	MyTurnToFlogMolly: One time my dad was questioning me about the night before, because I had went out. I told him I went to the movies with my friend Valerie. He asked if she was my girlfriend. I told him that she was a lesbian. Then, Dad "Does she let you watch?"

	PORSCHER: "I don't talk to terrorists" -- Foreigner (American, to be exact) at the mall.

	chewbaccasgirl: well i told my lovley sis "**** you" thats wat i said to her and mean to take it back cuz i love her wit all my heart.i was so sorry omg you dont know to have a sis as a best friend

	HopeSpringsEternal: "I wish I could give you a certain thing back that I can't..." (meaning my virginity)

	Trojan23: that I was a Jerk....

	ack5566: A male teacher said while looking at my chest " It is a dirty shame you are only thirteen"

	coolkid19878: Nothing that stands out in my mind, I guess constantly accuse me of being a communist(I'm russian) when I didn't even know what it was "That's why you have no friends"

	mymindkillsme: "I will rape you and hide you in the desert" - My sisters boyfriend at the time.

	BigMission: "You don't have any real friends, people only like you cause of your money."

	mdpais: "i don't care about anyone. not even you" & "coz of you your mom almost died tonight"

	lilpixiedez: "I'm disappointed in you as a human being"

	Timoo: Not a clue. Not that bad things haven't been said to me before... I just don't cement them into memory.

	PianoGirl16: "You'll never get married." It's like saying: Who would ever want YOU?

	Everythings_relitive: dyke i beat them down

	lexi_meek: I prefer not to say.. it's something a guy I 'liked' once said to me. I guess this answer has been worthless.

	Eowyn_Athena: My father told me I was worthless the day I got out of the mental hospital. I don't know if that's the absolute most horrible thing anyone has said to me, but it's up there.

	Cardtrickster: I HATE you.

	bballchick8182: "im gonna fucking kill you"

	Texzen: Probably 2 things. 1.) "Well, since we obviously screwed up with you, maybe we'll succeed with the other two." (My Mom) 2.) "You're an atheist? Faggot." (Wasn't from anyone important, but I was 14, and it was my first experience of bigotry for beliefs... obviously wouldn't be the last).

	john_guest: the worst thing that any1 has ever said was "John,I wanna have a kid" that was my gf when i was 12 ....she was 13 that was crazy cuz i was goin through a tough time then .....plus i was 12 so ya that sucked

	manda21: the one guy i really thought i loved told me that he didnt love me anymore

	chocolatte112: this boy i hadnt seen in a while sed that i had gotten uglier. i dont really care cuz he's a lame, but im not used to people calling me ugly, so i felt kinda ugly that whole day. The other worse thing was when this boy called meh a white girl in the 5th grade cuz i had this white friend and she was G and i kicked it wit her a lot. I was thinkin "i'm white now becuz this girl is my friend?" i ended up snappin on that boy a lot in the end

	funkless: a lot of bad things have been said to me- i rather not remember them

	insanewithanger: the wort thing 2 me was " i love you"

	insanewithanger: actually i said this to my bf...that nottin means less to me than u...i didnt mean it that way though...!!!

	boxocereal: No.

	Talos1: No, and I don't intend to.

	ixi: Yes :( It wasn't hard at first but it's only now starting to become kind of difficult. It's so expensive, both in money and in pain :(

	coolkid19878: Several times, enough times so I don't really know what it feels like being surrounded by people that love you, its my lifestyle I can't imagine it any other way

	mymindkillsme: Oh yeah.. many times.. I never stay in the same place it seems. You move on with life.. meet new people, find new things you like. Sucks really.. but you get used to it.

	rubberduckie01: Ya... I have moved more times than I can count, been to 8 schools... (in in the 8th grade and was homeschooled through the first) I have made new friends every year once, maybe even twice, I did the 2nd grade, and the 5th grade at 2 diffrent schools... I hate it now because un the 2nd and 3rd grade I went to one school and had a bunch of great friends, then I moved, later for the 7th and 8th grades I moved bck and was like reunited with a lot of those old friends. It was great but whenever we talk about anything after the 3rd grade and before the 7th I have huge gaps where they all have memories they cherish. I have some but none that they can remember because they weren't there. I am getting a little better at adjusting to it all but i don't ever want to do it again. (sorry this was so long lol it is kinda a story...)

	mdpais: no. n i hope that dosn't happen to me

	punk4ever: Yes. I just don't think about it much. I live my life one day at a time, knowing that I'll go home eventually.

	Timoo: Nope, I'd imagine I could do it well though. I can forget people easily enough...

	Everythings_relitive: yes

	Cardtrickster: Yep, whenI wa threatenedto be take from y family (Dad) and hd to mov to (New Hampshire from Florida) to liewith my Mom fo a couple of months.

	Texzen: I've moved quite a few times due to floods, family size increase, etc., but I never had to move very far.

	bound: Lets see...from Racine, to Hartford, to mayville, to lomira, to sussex, and back to lomira...yeah, i have. As far as adjusting, the first two moves rilly pissed me off, but from then on I was home schooled and didn't really have a lot of adjusting to do

	boxocereal: Sure.

	matteo716: i have this dream of an event that has not happened yet...... but i know it will

	Timoo: No, my past usually leaves me alone. I'd like to have a flashback sometime... (not kidding) it would be interesting to experience such a thing..,

	Cardtrickster: Yes,and both.

	bound: When I was like six I had a dream where I thought i woke up but i coulda still been in the dream - i didn't know if i was awake or not, and i still don't to this day...but it was kinda freaky

	mdpais: yeah. and unfortunately is wasn't good

	babybashful: yeah i guess itwas good and bad cause it was about my ex when we were together.the time i was happy with him.it makes me sad to think about it though.

	EricaDawn: Yeah I have a couple times. It was bad because it was of really bad things I'd gone through and my mind had blocked out until the flashback.

	sarah_marie_16: i have a couple times.....the first time was scary and freaked me out

	boxocereal: Nah.

	Cappucino: My mums dog. He is really unpredictable.

	mymindkillsme: Not really a certain person.. just any guy really.. I mean, if I'm alone at home I start to panic thinking I will get raped and killed.

	Munkiebebop: this kid joe did, be for he started talking, cuz he's a 6'3 skin head nazi looking muther ****er, but he kol once u get to know him

	_Forever_: This guy at my school. I am afraid for his life

	Timoo: Nope, people don't scare me...

	Cardtrickster: No really I don't thik.

	Sk8erSquid: My brothers old best friend. He tried to molest a 5 yr old, me. But I knew something was wrong and I called for my brother. He must go to hell, or somewhere really bad. :)

	bballchick8182: my teacher ms sehnholzi. im scared of her because once she said to my friend "trisha that shirt is innapropriate. I can see right down it."

	Texzen: No. I'm usually the one with the most "out there" thoughts and ideas on life.

	Wiccan_Seth7: Some times I'm affarid of myself, becuase I sometimes don't know my own inner self, how strong I am, and the words I use that I put apon myself can really hurt.

	chocolatte112: People dont scare me. definitely not anyone from this town.

	bound: Naw, if I were to meet someone who scared me i'd just play hide and go fuck yourself for the rest of forever

	mdpais: not really. just sometimes i don't like the vibes i get from some people so i just stay away from them

	nooneknowsme0000: i'm not scare of anyone......most people get scared of me when they find out i'm pissed at them

	aznchiq: noone scares me

	I_Luv_Orlando: shivers eeh, you have no idea. there's this guy at school that has a bit of a crush on me, and we communicate through this one notebook. he's kind of a freak, but at first i thought he was okay. now he's drawing me explicit pictures of things i'd rather not see, if you catch my drift..

	boxocereal: Meh..

	Cappucino: I think at certain points I have felt that way about certain people. Right now? I dont have the energy...

	Infinite_incongruence: I despise my dad's wife. The pain she has caused my entire family is unfathomable.

	Trojan23: No but its funny how women can do this by just looking at another women......

	coolkid19878: No, I don't believe in hating specific people

	Munkiebebop: I hate everyone just a lil bit, but not for any descent reason . So I and guess its not really hate, I dislike ppl, there thats it ,why? I blame a sunny disposition

	mymindkillsme: My ex-boyfriend.. he cheated on me with my best friend at the time. I honestly hate him. And my Father for abusing me.

	punk4ever: I hate 2 people for hurting close friends of mine.

	Timoo: Not that I can think of... Why hate people? Even people I don't get along with I don't hate.

	Everythings_relitive: no not realy

	mayofmay: I hate my father, he has expected nothing less than absolute perfection from me throughout my entire life, and all I am to him is a tax deduction and a retirement plan.

	Eowyn_Athena: Yes. I used to have a best friend who I loved more than anything. His parents were physically and mentally and verbally abusive to him - the person I loved most, and I didn't have the power to stop it. I hate them.

	Cardtrickster: No I "try" to love everyone.

	Chrissy0686: no, i try. it feels like hate at first but after a few days i realize that there's really nothing there.

	bballchick8182: i hate my parents because they beat me

	Texzen: No. I hate people's actions and ideas, or feel sorry for their self destructive ignorance, but I don't hate. It is pointless to me, and a waste of time and energy.

	chocolatte112: i hate my stepdad. everythin about him i hate. hes so fukkin lame.

	bound: I honestly hate my step dad - because he is a control freak, everything has to be done his way, and if its not my ass is homeless

	babygrl4u: yes....Timothy because he liked me for 2 months then started leading me on and then ignored me and got a gf knowing that I loved him and also because he is the reason I have been having this "fear of rejection."

	mdpais: sometime yeah. i hate my sister coz she is such a manipulative b****

	nooneknowsme0000: yea....I hate bunchof people it would take too long to type all of the reasons

	aznchiq: yes, cause there stupid ignorant bitches who think their better than everyone and they have to make everyone feel like shit cause its either their way or no way

	faeriekitty: nope. not really.

	rock_star8219: yes...kevin...why?...i have a list here...let's start with number one... "Reason's Why I Hate Kevin...Number 1"

	playmate10: no

	Mika167: yes I actually do. this guy I was friends with fell in love with me and kissed me..unfortunately for him I only thought of him as a friend so he obviously was mad and denied the kiss and said I was full of shyt so yeah he made y life a living hell and I absolutely hate him now

	brilliantblonde4eva: ye got 2 b ma ex best mates i h8 them both they are just generally mean 2 me and i dont even ask for it gets on ma nerves but ill cope

	blayze_2k: No not really. But I lose my temper alot.

	boxocereal: Yo momma.

	touch84: "people think beauty is Beauty, that is ugliness. People think that what is right is Right, that is wrong." Lao-tzu

	kelsoca: whatever I percieve it to be.

	PORSCHER: A combination of qualities, such as shape, color, or form, that pleases the aesthetic senses

	Trojan23: beauty is subjective and is condtioned by mainstream society

	mymindkillsme: Can be a number of things.. appearance, soul, mind, body, hopes, dreams..

	Munkiebebop: a person's soul

	skittlesz: to me beauty is on the inside even though that sounds like realy corny its true someone may look good and be a real bitch at heart.

	BigMission: Something that is enchanting and captivating to the eye, mind and heart.

	lilpixiedez: Life, Art, Music

	Timoo: What I was saying is, if I were to describe the sky, I would look towards my perfect form of beauty and determine if it were beautiful. I could also look at the beauty of someone's character or their physical attractiveness. It's a perfect description of what you feel is positive.

	Timoo: Philosophical aren't we? ;) Beauty, in my opinion, is the sum of all the attractiveness qualities a person has put together to describe a form which all references to are alluded from. It's relative to that person in question because beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

	Cardtrickster: Beauty is nice, but can fade.Intelligence and a nice heart live forever.

	Texzen: Beauty is the light inside someone (or something) that does not fade with time.

	mdpais: i look for beauty in character

	Guest ignoreaunt: it is a combination of a persons early pleasureable environment combined with natural human tendencies to like easier to see colors such as red, yellow, and orange. Each person has different experiences in their life, which lead them to have different senses of beauty.

	aznchiq: uhh...something that is pleasing?

	faeriekitty: all in the eyes of the beerholder

	playmate10: i think t depends on the person but i think beauty is on the inside

	brilliantblonde4eva: i duno erm.......... cud b in alt of fings huh

	Malinka: Beauty is however you see it. Some see beauty in dance, in music, in art, in simpler things uch as family and friends. Everything is beautiful if you know how to truely see.

	I_Luv_Orlando: whatever you want it to be. personally, i think beauty is in music.

	boxocereal: I don't know.

	mymindkillsme: It sucks but it does happen. I know a number of times I have hurt my boyfriend with harsh things I have said.. I think it's cuz you're so close to them, that sometimes you take them for grantid, or things just slip out when you're mad. As long as you didn't mean it in the end, and you say your sorries, I think you should forgive.

	BigMission: In my prospective I believe it is because the sense of dominance. People like the idea of superiority, the sense of streangth and power over someone. They become power hungry and only imgain themelse as being correct and everything else being wrong or a danger since it does not follow their own twisted sense of "devotion."

	crystal_m: honestly if someone is abusing someone else then they must not really and truely be in love with them

	lilpixiedez: I think people are too quick to fall in love. If you REALLY loved someone, you wouldn't purposelly hurt them, would you?

	Timoo: They're assholes. It's also in their brain chemistry so you can't blame them completely but any real man, even if the influence in his brain existed, would resist because of love. Your ex-husband was an ass and I'm sorry to hear he hurt you.

	Eowyn_Athena: You have no idea how long I've pondered over this question. I have a friend who had an abusive boyfriend, a best friend who's parents physically abused him, and my father has verbally abused me to the point where I felt I was nothing. All these people claim to love the person they abused, and I can't understand it. Love doesn't do that.

	Cardtrickster: Emotions are strang thing.

	Texzen: Fear and ignorance. Fear of losing that love, and ignorance in how to show it, or how to realize that love.

	mdpais: i honestly wish i knew

	sarah_marie_16: i wish i could tell you........but if u find out let me know

	faeriekitty: hell if i know. i want to know the same thing.

	brilliantblonde4eva: thats true maybe they av sumat wrong with them or they do it cuz they cant help themselves its daft init

	kellz: because hurting someone is easier than loving them and as you probably know, humans tend to lean towards the easier way to go.

	boxocereal: Nah.

	ixi: Yes. Helping people makes me feel really good.

	Trojan23: only if they ask i dont assume to know it all even thoug I actually do

	coolkid19878: On SCN, in real life I don't know enough people to give advice often

	mymindkillsme: Omg all the freakin' time. I dunno, I'm just one of those people that others run too as soon as they have a problem. They don't even ask how I am, or anything.. they just jump right into "OMG GUESS WHAT HAPPENED TO ME!"

	rabababa: Well, yes. That's why I am on SCN. :-)

	crystal_m: Yeah i give other people advice all the time . . . I want to do everything I possibly can to help other people out when they are in bad situations are just need someone to talk to

	Timoo: continued: :-X I figured I'd help out others too.

	Timoo: I do. :) I think I do it because of an inner urge to help people. My advice usually was well received by my platanic friends so I figured

	Eowyn_Athena: Yeah. I am constantly giving my little sister and her friends advice. Mainly because they don't really look to the future, and I feel that perhaps giving them advice will help. Plus, I've gone through a lot of what they're going through, and so I know what it's like.

	Texzen: Yes, because people tend to see me as a good listener, and the most grounded with common sense.

	chocolatte112: my friends always come to me to ask me what to do with boys, becuz im good in that area. lol im a P i M p

	mdpais: i used to. but i stopped coz no one would take it and they'd get into trouble and wish they'd taken it. but when the time came they'd go and do the opposite again

	audi732: not really cause i don't think i'm good at it

	honeybee3: yeah, because people always come to me for advice, they say it's because i'm easy to talk to

	faeriekitty: if they ask. if not, its none of my buisness.

	rock_star8219: no because my advice is always "do whatever you want, and don't regret it"

	Mika167: yes cuz I care alot about them and I honestly believe that if I haelp them theyll realize I know what the hell Im talkin about

	playmate10: ya

	blayze_2k: Yes. They ask for it or God leads me to talk to them.

	Malinka: I only give advise when I know its good.

	IceCatsBlues3520: no, bc I don't like taking other people's advice, so why would people want to hear mine?

	the_always_decieved_crazy_girl: yes but often although its the best advice i know in that situation i wouldnt take it.

	iceblade: yes...................but i don't know wh they ask my life is screwed up as it is

	Shaman: Only when they ask for it or seem to need it, because they ask for it or seem to need it.

	_Lisa_: yea i do cuz ppl turn to me for sum reason

	punkchikloser: yup, i like giving it, but they never follow it. it's not that it's bad advice...a lot of people don't take any advice

	StrikerAB10: all the time....cuz i give really good advice

	korn_chick2007: yeah when they ask me for it cuz I like helping people

	boxocereal: FUNS!

	Cappucino: It can mean a lot of different things to me at different times.

	ixi: It's a level of commitment and love, expressed in this mysterious physical act.

	HopeSpringsEternal: Being in love, and sharing a special chemistry of carnal passion and desire for each other.

	Trojan23: its a biological need as well as a spiritual need.....it completes us as human beings

	mymindkillsme: A beautiful and power bond, not only with the minds but with the body as well. You are giving yourself to your partner in a very romantic way.. sex should not be something you do with just anyone. It should be only between two people who are in love, and wish to spend their lives together. Sex is not only promising you to your lover, but promising you will always be there. Sex is a lot like marriage.. you must be ready for it, or it will all fall to pieces. Must also be with just the right one.

	Munkiebebop: it tends to change with might state of mind..

	skittlesz: have a conection wheter it sexualy of jst talkong kindof like phone sex...basically anytime you are truely inlove with someone like for me when we kiss on the lips that to me is very personal.

	Sir_Spence-a-lot: Nothing because i've never had it.

	BigMission: Passion, a bond and unity of soul and body, an expression being shown through a physical manner but with an emtional outlook and purpose. A sharing of a unity and bond bodies, souls, and trust. Sex is a trust, a bond, a promise, a commitment, and most importantly it is a way to prove to the person you love them and you are willing to give them your securities.

	lilpixiedez: Passion, Love, Respect, Poetry

	Timoo: A weakness in me. I will not try and sit back and say I don't like it but I will admit it is a weakness in my soul.

	Everythings_relitive: yes cuz they ask for it

	Eowyn_Athena: Sex, in my experience, is a very spiritual, loving and pleasurable act. I most certainly don't think sex is appropriate only in the confines of marriage, but I do believe you should have sex with someone you love. It creates a bond that is incredibly deep and meaningful.

	Texzen: Sex is a mutual exchange of a good feeling and fun, mixed with responsibility.

	alexislauren: a good feeling that comes with knowing that the other person feels good too

	mdpais: a way of proving your love to someone

	playmate10: i dunno something special i guess

	the_always_decieved_crazy_girl: um...it means what we do in human nature...loveing someone is something else to me

	iceblade: it means an intimate expression of love.............or it should to everyone

	punkchikloser: i dunno

	korn_chick2007: nuttin

	Gummie_Bear: nothing

	touch84: I don't need a reason to love, I simply love

	boxocereal: My b/f and family.

	ixi: Yes, I love Paul. Why? I just think he's one of the most fantastic men I've ever met in my life. The world is lucky to have him in it; he's going to do great things.

	HopeSpringsEternal: I love Jon Gilbert. We're not together anymore, but I'm still madly in love with him. He's my best friend, and whenever he's around I feel like a million bucks. I could taste love when he kissed me...

	Trojan23: Sence I broke up w/ my gf......I luv my pet dog sushi but it prob doent count..

	mymindkillsme: My boyfriend.. he's been there for me when I was getting abused, when I was alone and sad.. when I would cut 5 times a day, would I would not eat anymore.. he's been my shoulder to cry on, and the only thing that has made my heart pound. I love him more and more with each breath I take.

	Munkiebebop: famliy, but i dont understand love so i dont really know

	BigMission: I love my girlfriend, and I hope to one day marry her. I wish for the best of her and to be able to give her all I can. She has givin me a life filled with love, hope and beauty. She protects me when I'm sick, heals me when down, and is there for me whenever I need her. There is nothing she does not do for me. I just wish there would be more I could do for her she is so wonderfull to me.

	punk4ever: I love you because you are the most wonderful person I've ever met and the best friend anyone could ever hope for. I love my Angel because of the strong emotional bond that we have and the feeling of peace that I get when I'm with her.

	Timoo: I used to love someone... my best friend, she was always there for me in the worst of times. She died 5 years ago but it's alright, time heals all wounds.

	Everythings_relitive: mor..... never mind yes because

	Texzen: Sigh, i did love my grandmother, but she just passed away of three cancers. It was pretty depressing watching her waste away... but that's enough about that...

	txsweetie: yes i love my boyfriend justin b/c he loves me for me and not my looks and hes the sweetest guy ever

	txsweetie:

	chocolatte112: i have this one way unrequieted love thing for this boy Perry [shhhhh lol]

	TrulySatanic: yes, jessica.. because well... because! she is the greatest being and well... you know :P

	mdpais: Yeah. my guy. can't explain why though. just know i do and always will

	babybashful: yeah chris my ex but he doesnt give damn ,cause we were great together i dont know what he thought was wrong.

	Mika167: ya I love my family and friends but the other love neh Im taking a break from it..its almost not worth it if yer just gonna end up getting hurt

	playmate10: yes my friends my family and my husband justin

	blayze_2k: I love lots of people. Mostly family and friends, and because they are kind to me I guess. I can't really explain why I love ppl....

	MyKool-AidsSexy: yeah ::sighs:: Jo cuz i do yo shes great

	the_always_decieved_crazy_girl: yea, love is not a question [in my opinion] it just is.

	iceblade: No

	punkchikloser: no i don't and i probably never will

	StrikerAB10: I love Justin soooo much!!! hes the nicest guy ever, I wish he didnt have a girl friend cuz we get along soooo well!!!

	iluveu: yes my bf

	lilpunkprincess666: yup, Wes and Ben :D Cuz they love me!!! lol

	sk8guitarchick182: I love my g/f!

	korn_chick2007: i love jayson cuz he's the sweetest guy on earth

	boxocereal: HAPPY BIRTHDAY!

	ixi: Yeah, sure...er....happy birthday

	mymindkillsme: Happy Birthday to you!

	Timoo: Happy 18th whenever it was. :)

	playmate10: happy birthday!

	blayze_2k: Happy burfday! From your posts on the religion forum you seemed older than 17... there are lost of people on there much older and much less mature.

	iceblade: Happy birthday

	sk8guitarchick182: HaPpY hApPyHaPpY hApPyHaPpY hApPy BirThDaY!

	korn_chick2007: happy birthday

	coldsteel: I hope you have an abosultly, positvely, more than fantabulous birthday, and I wish you get more than you'd ever want!!!

	-PuNkLiViNLiFe-: HAPPY B-DAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

	boxocereal: One word. Power. Some people are so wrapped up in that.

	ixi: I don't understand it either.

	HopeSpringsEternal: To make yourself look good, to take the other person down so that you can feel as if you're better than they are... it's pretty stupid.

	coolkid19878: Bullying, to make yourself feel stronger than those around you

	mymindkillsme: Me either.. my Father is both verbally and physically abusive towards me. Luckily, I got out. I think it's all about power and control..

	Spoiled_lucy5: Verbal is a meaning of a mind theory. You state of being in the mind. Say, If I told you you were a whore and you know it's not true then that is verbal abuse. Physical abuse is (EX. would be me hitting you with a force of some sort.)

	Munkiebebop: you got me..

	BigMission: This is a way to make the individual that is abusing to seem like a more superiour being. They dislike being viewed as a weaker individual so they prey on those weaker for their own of self satisfaction and also to cover up for their own insecurities and liablities.

	lilpixiedez: It's an unappropriate source of release. For example, someone may cut themselves for a release, or drink until they are drunk, or smoke, or....

	Timoo: There is no purpose to it. Trust me. It's an act of cowardice.

	Mika167: Its just a way to show the person that they better not mess with you or youll get hurt..they feell they will be weak if hte other person stands up for themselves...its completely stupid but sadly true

	iceblade: Just for one person to "show" the other person that they are "superior" to them

	nihilist: it's a product of frustration

	boxocereal: Maybe.

	mymindkillsme: Yes I do. Hitler hated freakin' everyone for how they looked and he killed many for that. The Rwanda Genecide killed many people also.. there is no reason for that, except for ignorance, and pure hatred.

	Timoo: Yes. If such a thing exists where there is true love there must always be an opposite emotion. An example however... It's in each of us, the potential to become consumed by true hatred, just like the potential for us to fall in love is. Vietnam... the rape, the murder, the animalistic cruel methods of pain we inflict upon each other... It's all that potential slipping out.

	Everythings_relitive: no because

	Malinka: Yes. But I think its is just as rare as true love. I have never met anyone like that. I see it more as people who are just hurting inside, and expressing their anger/sadness/frustrations the only way they know how.

	the_always_decieved_crazy_girl: hell yea, pple inflicting pain towards an animal is true hatred, especially when they do it really slow.

	punkchikloser: i think there is. how can you like someone if a person raped you, abused you, treated you like shit? anyway, soe people are just full hate so they hate anyone

	boxocereal: Well, I do have to live with myself.

	mymindkillsme: No, I have tried to end my life many times.

	Munkiebebop: no

	punk4ever: not really

	Dinhy: nope

	Timoo: Always. :) I wouldn't want to be anyone else but myself.

	Eowyn_Athena: Unfortunately, I do not.

	chocolatte112: deep down i know i do.

	Leznproud: No. I see no point in doing so.

	faeriekitty: yes i do.

	rock_star8219: fuck no..only God loves me..and he's the only one...

	playmate10: yes

	blayze_2k: Not too much, but a bit.

	IceCatsBlues3520: yeah.........you gotta love yourself b4 you can love others

	the_always_decieved_crazy_girl: Um.I used to with such emotion, but I'm begining ot lose all respect towards myself

	iceblade: opps............do i love myself.....umm......right now......not very much

	iceblade: only God right now..........he'll take care my of love situation

	punkchikloser: nope

	sk8guitarchick182: sumtimes

	korn_chick2007: not really

	crypticdevotion: Sometimes I do and sometimes I don't ... wish I always did, but fat because I'm pregnant and it sucks.

	xxxbutterfly_kissesxxx: depends!!

	WildInsaneCaroline: No..

	boxocereal: The future/unknown .. BIG change and driving.

	ixi: Well, in terms of me, it's when I forget I'm loved. That's the scariest thing ever. The world scares me. I mean I know that's really general but...there are a lot of people in this world whose views scare me.

	mymindkillsme: Losing my boyfriend.. I don't think I would still be alive..

	skittlesz: to live a life without knowing what its like to be in love

	rubberduckie01: when people I love die i guess.... especially if they kill themselfs, I have lived my greatest frar and it is still it. I guess that if someone says that they want to die that i know especially that brings back the memories and the fear. I am also afraid of not being "accepted" but not in the normal sense i guess. I am an individual and sometimes am not accepted but that doesn't bring up the fear... it is confusing. "I am not afraid of death, i'm just scarred to death of living..."

	lilpixiedez: Dying in my sleep...the idea that I might go to sleep and never wake up again is terrifying

	Timoo: I don't know. I'm not really afraid of anything... Though I could come up with some sick methods of torture I'd probably dislike if that counts.

	txsweetie: CLOWNS!!!

	rock_star8219: living a life without meaning (i'm living my fear right now...)

	Mika167: dying without falling into true unconditonal love

	Malinka: The unknown. Not that I'm really afraid of it, but if there is something that scares me, that's what it would be

	I_Luv_Orlando: fear. i'm afraid of being afraid.

	the_always_decieved_crazy_girl: being pregnant, beetles and roaches

	sonja_belle: at age 16 , being pregnant would scare me the most

	iceblade: mentally- being alone, physically-heights

	punkchikloser: being alone

	sk8guitarchick182: Tarantulas...Love Ones dying..Not being with my g/f...cause i cant live without her

	WildInsaneCaroline: Loosing someone, palmetto bugs, elevators...

	cupids_arrow: picturing a world with more hate than love!!!

	boxocereal: What I have found out with my experience with love is it's sweet misery .. it's never always good and it's never always bad .. but no matter how bad it getse the good makes up for it and I don't think I could live without it.

	Christine89: To know you could never, ever want to be with anyone else.. to want to share every moment with someone .. to know you would do anything for them, and would do anything to be with them for the rest of your life .. to want to die rather than be without them, to be willing to die just to be with them.

	lilpixiedez: Respect, Sex, Comfort

	Timoo: Sounds corny but... the linking of two hearts where two beings become one (not sex). Once the two beings have merged spiritually, that is love.

	faeriekitty: it means you do shit you normally wouldn't do, and feel things you wouldn't normally feel, and pretty much give up all normal senses for a while.

	Mika167: crazy mixed up emotions...also something that I want to have forever...

	the_always_decieved_crazy_girl: it means the birth of your soul and a new life in your hands and heart, it means alot to.

	iceblade: the one you love..........you will give your life for them, you live for that person and add them as a priority

	sk8guitarchick182: it means being with the one u love...care...about...cant live without... uh just needing wanting that one person

	WildInsaneCaroline: Two people caring soo much for each other they'd do anything. Two people that share intinment thoughts towards one another, treat each other with respect, care for each other, comfort & always help one another, two people that can trust & be honest to each other.

	AmandaViola: Love is something I cant really explain... I dont think anyone can acuratly...

	black2004: love is having someone make you cry, but them wiping your tears afterward...its having an argument, but over something so silly just to see what types of things they'll say...its just havin a sexy face to make you smile when u feeli like aint no reason to smile in the world

	punkchikloser: love, eh? I'm not quite sure. I mean, people fall in love to easy. Anyone can fall in love within one day while talking to a guy/girl. Love is easy to get into but hard to get out of

	missymoo692: love means happiness and everything else... love is life and life is love, a life without love is worthless. too live without love is the worst way to live.

	boxocereal: Not right now.

	Timoo: Kind of, I created a company for web design/programming. My client list is kind of small, however. The pay for my prior jobs was nice though. I love my job. ;)

	emotional_gurl: i worak at culver which is a family resturant, and also tiny tots treehouse which is a day care center. i love both jobs:)

	playmate10: not right now

	iluveu: yes at Baskin Robins and i umpire and i like both jobs

	sugar_2004: yep. a movie theater that jus opend by our mall. Last night I was ticket taker and was exactly even at the end of the night with my money. Hell yeah! my boss said he was proud of me and is gonna put me there more often so i dont get shit jobs like ushering

	lilpunkprincess666: yup I work in Stillwater, MN cleaning offices once a week for 4 hours for $105 a month... I hate that job. I like it cuz it's once a week but right now it's on Fridays, and when I'm sick I still hafta go cuz I work with my 'rents.

	AmandaViola: not right now i used to work at a vet... and i liked it

	wyomble: yes, construction on UCLA frat houses, yeah

	boxocereal: I don't know.

	Timoo: Ehhh it's an odd dream... Some random friend (I couldn't tell who it was) and I go and pick up two girls for double date... It then flashforwards to the future and I'm on some island after the plane we were on landed... I then had sex in a field with the girl with short blond hair... Now when I say sex I mean beautiful sex... In the dream I never saw the sex, the dream skipped to after, but we were covered in long cut flowers and I felt warm inside.

	Eowyn_Athena: I had a very vivid and detailed dream that my mother was going to die of cancer. About 9 months later, we found out she had cancer, and a year later, she died, just exactly like it was in the dream.

	rock_star8219: i fell in love with kevin shudders Tina Camonayan is NOT a good name to STICK with...

	iceblade: I was on a wrestling mat since I was a wrestler and I was going for some title and like my mom had me a party

	missymoo692: the one were i got raped by my ex-boyfriend and his friends and then they all left and i was layin there naked in the rain crying and my friend david showed up and gave me his sweat shirt and told me to smile... then i put on his shirt and was walkin home and my friend nicole came up and bitch slapped me, called me a bitch and disappeared.... im not sure what it means but i've been really paranoid and scared of bein raped ever since the first time i had the dream... yea it was one of those repetive ones.

	punkchikloser: my most vivid dream is when someone was holding a gun to my head. that's all i remember

	xXxUnspokenTruthxXx: the dream where a man was in my room with intentions to rape me. it was so real. i've had it more than once. i don't know what it means.

	springbreaker: a womans body is hers to do with as she pleases, i won't impose my beliefs or ethics upon you, don't impose yours on me, that said abortion is an unfortunate meathod of birth control, in places where condoms/pills are not available/expensive, some women have had 20+ abortions by the time they were 30, that's awful rough on the human body and pysche :(

	boxocereal: For the most part I'm pro-choice .. I'm not for abortion being a form of birth control that's bull** .. people need to find out about condoms and birth control and start using them! Everyone makes mistakes, no one's ** doesn't stink and no body can walk on water .. sh*t if abortion became completely illegal that wouldn't stop some woman if that's what they really wanted to do .. they would find someone to do it ending up in a lot more infections, diseases and death.

	boxocereal: For the most part I'm pro-choice .. I'm not for abortion being a form of birth control that's bull** .. people need to find out about condoms and birth control and start using them! Everyone makes mistakes, no one's ** doesn't stink and no body can walk on water .. sh*t if abortion became completely illegal that wouldn't stop some woman if that's what they really wanted to do .. they would find someone to do it ending up in a lot more infections, diseases and death.

	Christine89: In those scenarios, I think it's okay.. teen mom - I kind of feel like they made a mistake, and it should be their responsiblity, but what can you do.. big family - well, if you didn't want any more kids, you can go to the doctor and they can fix that for you.. I think it's awful well people just use it as a form of birth control. I once knew someone who didn't bother with condoms, and got so many abortions because she kept getting pregnant .. hello, use a condom.. duh. =)

	coolkid19878: Not sure, In a way girls should have the right to choose, however, most girls do regret abortion later so... I don't know

	crystal_m: I believe that no matter the situation abortion is wrong. From the Christian point of view, the Bible states that you shalt not kill and abortion is the killing of a child. A child is someone who is innocent and has caused no harm to anyone. Also, abortion causes this unborn child pain, which is undeserved considering it has done no wrong to get this treatment. I agree sometimes people are put in bad situation like in rape or the other scenarios mentioned above, but I believe that you should decide to go with adoption if that is the case. Even in those scenarios, I still believe that abortion is wrong. You should just pray that God will help you get through it, and know that He is watching over you and taking care of you because He loves you. If you kill a child, you are committing a major sin and causing unneed pain. If anybody out there is considering abortion, I think you should seriously check up on it in a spirtual manner, as well as causing pain to the unborn child, and consider what I have said. I hope you will pray for the people put in these situations like I am, and God will lead to them the right decision regarding the matter.

	punk4ever: I believe in the scenarios you mentioned, abortion is necassary. In some cases it isn't though. But abolishing it won't make it go away. That's why I'm pro-choice.

	lilpixiedez: I think abortion is a completely appropriate method of preventing pregnancy for more reasons than I can name (I actually had to write a report about this in school, and there is barely any doubt in my mind that this should be legal and available)

	Timoo: It's not my place to judge anyone other than myself. I say, let them do as they choose. I think if it were my kid I'd want it to live though... I don't know.

	Eowyn_Athena: I personally think that if you willingly have sex, protected or unprotected, you do it with the knowledge that you may become pregnant. If you can't live with that possibility, then you shouldn't be sleeping with anyone. I believe that in most cases, abortion is an easy way out. You need to face the conseqeunces of your actions. Abortion is irresponsible, selfish, and immature. BUT, there are a two cases where I think it is okay. The first is rape. If you are raped, sometimes it's too tramatizing to know you are carrying your rapist's child inside of you. Abortion may be the best option. And in cases where the mother's health is in severe danger, I think it's alright as well.

	emotional_gurl: i am pro-life all the way, and nothing is gonna change my opinion on that, there is alwayz adoption if you dont wanna keep your child.

	playmate10: im against it

	blayze_2k: I don't beleive in abortion. I don't know about some of the scenarios, but as far as pregnancy from rape: "It's not the baby that need's killin'" -Rob Roy in the movie Rob Roy. (great movie! Go watch it!)

	crypticdevotion: Abortion should never be comnsidered. Even in rape the mother should put the child up for adoption. I am pro-life, not pro-choice. If it's called pro-choice why doesn't the child get a choice wether they are killed or not?

	cupids_arrow: all i kno is if it has or did have a heartbeat then it was living! thats my view

	punkchikloser: i'm pro-life. if someone is raped i thinkthey should put it up for adoption. no matter what the baby is yours. how can you kill your child?!?! If some teen was pregnant from having sex with her b/f then she deserves to keep the child to learn from wat happened

	missymoo692: im pro-choice... who am i to tell someone they HAVE to have a kid?

	xXxUnspokenTruthxXx: i think it's murder. anyone who performs or has an abortion was involved in murder.

	xXxUnspokenTruthxXx: i think it's murder. anyone who performs or has an abortion was involved in murder.

	May_S: I never think it's right, but in situations where a VERY EARLY abortion would save the mother's life, I can understand it.

	rebob: I think thats its wrong in all situations

	WildInsaneCaroline: Well, depending on what kind of person or situation. I don't really want to be a parent, but if I were pregnant, I would want to keep the child then. If I were rape, might consider an abortion. I doubt I would wind up with a big family. Even though I don't want to be a parent, I wouldnt have an abortion if I got pregnant, unless it was truely the best thing to do.

	touch84: You are the only one who can put a limit on something

	boxocereal: Nope.

	coolkid19878: Psychology claims so, but then again based on what read, its not very good at defining love, so I'll say that there isn't

	mymindkillsme: I'm 16 and my boyfriend is 19.. almost 20. We have true love, and anyone who knows us, will agree to that. Age has nothing to do with love. I think you should live your life for you and if someone else has a problem with it, then they can kiss off.

	lilpixiedez: Yes. What most people think is love is almost always infactuation.

	Timoo: Nope. Well maybe when I'm an old man finding someone to love would kind of be hard... but keeping it would be easy enough if I fell in love young enough. I'm the sort that while I have commitment issues (usually I couldn't picture myself longterm with the girls so dumped them...) I think that I'd cherish it everyday... (Parents divorced when I was a kid and I always saw my father making mistakes like not showing his love... I won't make his mistakes.)

	Eowyn_Athena: I completely agree with strange1

	playmate10: no

	iceblade: not on fiding it, keeping it is another question, you really have to sacrifice to keep it.

	punkchikloser: NO LIMIT! and age difference shouldn't matter either!

	missymoo692: never...

	wyomble: i think the limit is the experience it takes to get there.

	xXxUnspokenTruthxXx: i don't believe in love

	sweetnsour: hrm... welllllll, no. not really. but i dont know. like, i guess there are different levels of love, and it can be true thru your whole life (if you are lucky like that) but like, i dunno. its just different dependin on your age. god i make no sense. i dont know...

	SmartJock: no. I believe she was forgiven but still had to take responsibility

	boxocereal: HELL NO! That's kinda like saying someone isn't guilty for reasons of insanity I HATE THAT!! They still ****ing did the crime that doesn't change anything!!

	coolkid19878: Well its a little hard to answer this by ignoring my views (I'm against execution), But just because she said she was visited by Jesus it doesn't mean it was true, it could've even been a hullicination, nevertheless, if she was forgiven I guess if you go by the bible its not a big deal

	mymindkillsme: HELL NO! She's a serial killer! Jesus can forgive her all he wants, but she needs to be punished. It's only fair. Take a life, you should have yours taken as well.

	Timoo: No. Jesus and I will also have a lot to talk over when/if I get up there if that were true.

	Eowyn_Athena: Hell no. That's ridiculous!

	blayze_2k: No. Legally she will still have to pay the price.

	punkchikloser: no way, she did what she did and she should be punished, she can't take back what happened so why should she live?

	punkchikloser: no way, she did what she did and she should be punished, she can't take back what happened so why should she live?

	missymoo692: no thats fucked up... she is excused because she was nutz and said "jesus" visited her... ugh i'd shoot her myself

	rebob: Umm, I'm not sure. I can't be bothered thinking about it right now but I believe all sins get the same punishement but I know they can all be fogiven

	guitargirlkatie: no, if she was excused, everyone on death row from now on will be "visited and saved"

	boxocereal: I don't know.

	coolkid19878: Personally I believe that all of us will suffer the same fate and that there are no two sepeprate places as "Heaven" or "Hell", Different beliefs and philosophies define good and evil differently, furthermore, a person might believe that he/she is doing something good when its actually hurting people. So if some people really go to haven based on some criteria, then salvation is simply luck, you were lucky enough to pick the right philosophy or religion, therefore there is predestination which I don't think is right. IF there is an all might god I don't think he's going to descriminate like that

	Timoo: I'm not sure heaven exists... I believe something out there is calling me though so I guess I can answer the question to the best of my belief... Hmm I'd say another choice... those of whom would be willing to suffer for the sake of others. Not always do we have the chance to prove ourselves but if the chance occured I would take a bullet for a stranger. Anyone who would duck a bullet for their own sake, even if they were good on Earth and faith in god, would still lack the heart in my book.

	Eowyn_Athena: I don't believe we need to be "saved" from anything.

	punkchikloser: i have no opinion on that. I don't believe in heaven. sorry

	xXxUnspokenTruthxXx: through grace

	guitargirlkatie: deeds, we should act good on our own. I cant stand those people who believe in predestination and those who believe will be saved regardless of their actions. Its clearly the assholes trying to justify their actions who believe in grace alone.

	heavenly_junkie: grace

	falc: I mustve forgotten 'cause I can't remember anything like that in the Narnia books.... I read the entire set too... anyway, this deals with the very early Protestant view (when Luther broke from the Catholic church)... deeds are not essential to salvation, but if you have faith, THEN you will live out a good life and do good deeds and show compassion towards others....

	GaRbAgEgLaM: God is who saves us; His grace saves us; Deeds reveal our faith, and deeds are done because of one's faith, so both; deeds mean nothing w/ out faith.

	boxocereal: The old lady.

	coolkid19878: I guess the old lady has the right, How do we know that the baby will never be loved and how do we know his mother's life will never be good again?

	Timoo: It's not my place to judge the worth of another's life.

	Eowyn_Athena: Who knows no one will ever love the child? Maybe his parents will not, but I bet that somewhere, someday, someone will love the child.

	punkchikloser: Th old lady. The baby may be ever loved and all but she could grow up to learn from that. just because no one will love her doesn't mean she can't love herself.

	talos1: If I were to choose only one, it would have to be the old woman. The baby can be saved, but the old woman has lived a long life, and now there's nothing left for her but pain and empty memories.

	GaRbAgEgLaM: Nobody should die; however, I would choose to relieve the suffering of the old lady; a baby who won't be loved by it's mother can be loved by adoptive parents or other family members...

	amythist182: The old lady

	potter_punkette: The baby because without memories, you're nothing. I'd rather not dealing with this cruel world.

	milldogg: the old lady

	_Lisa_: the old lady jus cuz she is in pain and if i was her i would jus want to die and not be in pai my grandma is always in pain cuz she has austrophrosis (i dunno how to spell it) so her bones r really week and she is always sick she always says she wishs she would ju die cuz the pain is unbearable so i wouldnt want the old lady to be in pain plus the baby will love its mother no matter what since its all it will know so it wouldnt make a diff

	boxocereal: It's big.

	ixi: Haha...well, the city I'm from is amazing. It's an oasis of hippiness and just raw humanity in the middle of a very bizarre state. Where everything is WAY BIGGER THAN IT SHOULD BE!!!

	coolkid19878: It's a state, might be an interesting place to visit, I guess I don't like the fact that its so big on executions,

	mymindkillsme: Isn't that where our no-good-loser of a President is from?

	Timoo: It sounds like it's very hot, not my sort of environment.

	the_always_decieved_crazy_girl: Dont MESS WITH TEXAS :/

	HeavenlyCreature_87: Texas is the best!

	iceblade: Everything's bigger in texas.....lol............ummm.......very controversial.........i mean thats where Bush is from..the Dixie chicks thing

	sk8guitarchick182: i think Texas is cool....?!

	guitargirlkatie: the arm pit of america. j/k

	topanga1121: LMAO! it's great... so great in fact that there's this one guy from NY who really should find a reason to visit ;-) or perhaps consider a college near me... lol

	Imasinner: I've lbeen to just about every state in lived in three inculding texas and i liek it the best outa any of the other to...vermont and massachusetts dont have much to offer...

	talos1: "God Bless Texas"

	Rainbowwench84: i like the way it is shaped

	boxocereal: No.

	rebob: No' I havnt. I don't think theres any point in the because I have nothing to offer.

	GaRbAgEgLaM: come to think of it...I may have, but I can't remember...hmm...

	bacon592: I'm in law enforcement so I do that pretty much all the time. Too many to list but I always follow through.

	boxocereal: I don't know.

	ixi: Some of them are very skilled and I think it's great that there are people out there that can help you.

	coolkid19878: They could be nice to talk to, but its hard to find good ones

	Timoo: There are good doctors and bad doctors. I bet many of them get a high from helping others while some probably chose the job for the sole purpose of making quick and easy money. I've taken a psychology course at my college and most of the information learned was helpful in one way or another... I understand myself better because of the course.

	the_always_decieved_crazy_girl: no they just help you deny everything I know because i used to have one, but in a way its a very helpful thing...in so many others its not and it wasnt worth the money i mean, here i am talking ot a guy i've never known, what the hell is he gunna make an example of me with his family?

	sugar_2004: mine made me feel worse than i already did. so my opinion on them is they r quacks

	punkchikloser: there not out for the money. they want to help.

	guitargirlkatie: i havent been to one, but sometimes it helps just to talk to someone, so i wont knock them

	talos1: Never been to one, so I couldn't tell you my opinion.

	tears_of_blood56: Not only are they a waste of money, but they're a waste of space. The world doesn't need people like them.

	bacon592: I guess they're ok, in 18 years I've had to see 2 but I think in the last 5 years I've seen life the way I needed to see it and didn't need to see them anymore.

	carlotta: When you find the right one

	dancefreak: save your money.......they are more craier than you r..........why talk to people who just sit there in this big chair who pretend to be listenin, when you could probably get more information talkin to a nice dark corner.....I love talkin to corners

	Guest pxpdoo: They're worth the money. They immediately offer new points of view that lone individuals would need years to discover...

	boxocereal: I pretty much keep it inside like I do all other emotions.

	ixi: When I was depressed, I'd keep it inside almost always, until it got so bad that I started cutting. Then I couldn't hide it, and I didn't really have a reason to. I would listen to Korn ALL THE TIME to relieve some of the pain.

	coolkid19878: Inside for the most part, If I try to let it out people just get upset, I usually express it in writing

	mymindkillsme: Usually keep it inside.. my boyfriend is the only one I talk too, if that.

	crystal_m: I usually just keep it inside until on day someone makes me so mad, and I just let it all out on them. I guess that really isn't fair to the person, maybe i should work on that . . .

	punk4ever: I usually just keep it inside and snuff it out.

	Timoo: Not depressed... I'd probably call up a few of my female friends if I were though... they're usually good listeners.

	rock_star8219: first i keep it bottled up inside, and then i just vent it all out...i scream, i cry, i sob, i write, i do practically almost everything anywhere when i have a problem, but i never tell anyone about it, never...

	IceCatsBlues3520: i just roll with it, I figure it'll pass at some point

	punkchikloser: i vent. i'm a big complainer. but, somehow i still got friends

	talos1: This is one of the things I still have problems with. I tend to keep it bottled up inside, thinking it will pass, but when something happens that breaks the straw I just let it all out in anger.

	tears_of_blood56: Do you know that computer game Grand Theft Auto?? Well, when I get depressed or really pissed off I just start killing people on the game.

	_Lisa_: i always keep it inside i dont wanna bug ppl wit my problems

	GaRbAgEgLaM: I switch between the 2...I'm ambivalent...heh :)

	bacon592: Keep it inside.

	Lord_Zathras: I tend to keep it inside... Dangerous... I know... But I don't really have a shoulder to lean on to let my problems loose. Though of late I've been quite devoid of depressed feelings or thoughts ^_^

	whybother: inside till i get by myself then i scream alone and write and cry it all out

	carlotta: ow I just cracked my toe!

	TheatreGodII: I've kept it inside for years... just recently have I let it slip. I like to keep to myself about these thing, it's kinda embarising to admit that you are depressed.

	boxocereal: Empathy.

	Timoo: Empathy... Though empathy is a form of emotional telepathy of a sorts I would say.

	Malinka: Hm. Good question. I'd rather go with telepathy. Empathy is a lot harder to block, and dealing with crowds can be extremely overwhelming.

	GaRbAgEgLaM: both, I guess...I dunno

	bacon592: Empathy.

	Guest pxpdoo: Empathy. Telepathy, if it exists at all, is extraordinarily rare; Empathy is a function of wisdom and intellect.

	What101: both!!i think

	boxocereal: ****ing snow!

	Christine89: Desert.

	mymindkillsme: DESERT! I live in Nevada!

	Dinhy: desert

	punk4ever: Desert. You'll never die of thirst in the snow.

	Timoo: Desert... Snow is nice. :)

	playmate10: desert

	Malinka: Desert

	punkchikloser: snow

	guitargirlkatie: desert

	tears_of_blood56: Desert.

	bacon592: Desert.

	Lord_Zathras: The Desert would have to be worse. I am used to Snow and cold weather - I actually enjoy it even. Year round I wear shorts - even during the winter. Now in the Desert - that wouldn't be fun, too dry, too hot, and there's more of a chance one would get sun burnt >_<

	Guest pxpdoo: Desert is worse. In the cold, you can add more layers to stay warm. In the heat, you can only strip down so much - then there's nothing left to take off and you're still hot. Further, you can't die of dehydration with snow around!

	artfearie: desert

	melanieshebel: snow

	dormsby: SNOW....and Hitting people with snowballs!

	AndIllNoLongerBeACapulet: desert is worse. I've lived in Iceland, w/ the snow. and do live in Arizona. The desert isn't even pretty.

	jd18: snow, it's always cold around here this time of year. I'd rather be warm even if it does get cold at night. I despise the cold.

	RaZzBeRy: i like both. but since where i live is pretty much a tamed desert... i like the warmth. desert doesn't necessarily mean wasteland.

	boxocereal: Never.

	Christine89: only when it's consensual, like because of age difference.. I don't really think it's rape then.

	HopeSpringsEternal: Never.

	coolkid19878: Hmm, I guess it depends from who's point of view, It is a horrible crime and I';m guessing the victim might never forgive the attacker, yet the attacker could be mentally ill so its not really their fault

	Munkiebebop: statutory rape could be justified if that counts

	mymindkillsme: If it's statutory rape.. then I think it's justified. But if the women says NO or the man says NO then it's not justified.

	punk4ever: never

	lilpixiedez: Rape is forcing someone to have sex with you against their will. I can't find a logical justification for that.

	Timoo: Never. If god ordered a rape (someone below put that) and I were around I'd fight the rapist and defy god. No women should ever be put through the pain and psychological effects rape has on them. If I have to go to hell to protect one, fine.

	Everythings_relitive: by god

	sonja_belle: Violence to another cannot be justified

	punkchikloser: i don't know what justified means!

	missymoo692: never its a scary fuckin thing

	talos1: NO. Never. Someone who would do that to a female deserves to get shot. If someone raped someone I know, I swear I would be there to pull the trigger.

	bacon592: I agree with artfearie.

	Guest pxpdoo: What an amazing question. Who are these people?

	artfearie: only if its statutory rape and the other person agreed. which this happens often

	Shaman: Unless your referring to statutory rape (which is a good bit different then just "rape") it can't be. Statutory rape on the other hand is an invention of the government to keep older individuals from taking advantage of those who don't know enough to say "no". Of course again they use age as the determining factor but... shrugs ...in Maryland your partner has to be over 16 if your over 18 and conscenting.

	rogue_nymph: i don't think it can be justified...unless you thought the person wanted to have sex with you

	boxocereal: Pull everyones pants DOWN.

	Christine89: watch Andrew .. sounds stalker-ish.. haha.

	mymindkillsme: I would follow my boyfriend for a day.. just to see what he's doing. ((I don't think he's cheating!))

	Timoo: You're a very interesting girl. :) So many questions based upon ethics... This one obviously to present an argument like Plato's invisible man who went and acted immorally because no one was there to stop him. I doubt I'd do anything myself though... I wouldn't be able to sleep if I stole from somewhere and, though to my friends I'd probably say go look at girls naked, I have more class than that.

	rock_star8219: cry my heart out...i don't have to face my pride, i can just cry, cry, cry, cry, cry...you get the idea...

	punkchikloser: sit around and be depressed

	tears_of_blood56: I am invisible.

	_Lisa_: peolly rob a bank ok rob LOTS of banks lol and then rob lots of stores lol i would get millions have tons of clouthes cars smokes alki and i would be set lol

	bacon592: Rob banks.

	Lord_Zathras: Infiltrate Government buildings, gather what information I can, then start making plans to take over the US. :P Or I'd probably go around playing jokes on others hehe

	Guest pxpdoo: I'd be cold (because clothing would mark my position, if I wore it) and I'd cut myself shaving, stab my chin with a fork while eating, and I'd constantly bump my elbows on things.

	artfearie: scare the crap out of.

	jd18: I'd catch a train and leave this place.

	Shaman: There are a lot of things Id rather be for a day. And a lot of things Id rather be permanently. Like a shapeshifter (even if it were just one form [Panther!]). But if I were invisible for a day, Id do the same thing I would with all those other abilities. (Hint: What did Clark Kent and Peter Parker do when they found out what they were capable of?)

	rogue_nymph: scare people

	will_4567: Spend all my time in the girls locker room

	dormsby: Hmmmm... What I would do... Sneak into my best friends house %)

	michelleflo: change all my grades in the school computer

	kool_keigan: I'd rob a bank and rob other places. I would scare the shit out of ppl by picking stuff up and having it float and all sorts of other stuff

	PRIMO: murder a lot of people, rob places and cause mischief around town.

	boxocereal: I really don't see the point of marriage actually I continue to tell my b/f ... "I'm happy exactly the way we are."

	Timoo: Agreeing to myself that I found the one person I'd give the world up for. If I was with someone I loved but never married them I would feel weak as if the relationship would break at any moment. The minute I am married I will constantly make sure my partner knows how happy they make me. I'd feel as if they gave up their life for me (which I would be doing as well).

	Malinka: Nothing.

	iceblade: I think its like sex........you show you love the other person, but its stupid that you need a license to say you are married

	punkchikloser: being bound to one person

	May_S: Like legal marriage? Because I don't think that's necessarily what marriage is. Emotionally it's a commitment by two people to always choose to love the other person, even if the love "feelings" go away. Legally, it's a way to gain regocnition from the government and your friends and family that you've made this commitment. I don't think they need to come at the same exact time.

	kato87: It means involving the government in your private life.

	guitargirlkatie: being hopelessly in love with another person and showing it to everyone

	bacon592: Waking up to the same old face for the rest of your life.

	Shaman: Its a formal affirmation of two individuals for one another...or at least its supposed to be.

	boxocereal: I don't know.

	Timoo: Remember that hatred question you later posed? That's why. They become engulfed in their hatred so much that they blindly do it. Church officials, rabbis, government officials, and other important figures are doing it as well. It's a bad example set down from the highest order which carries down to the ignorant sheep below. There is no point to it for the only thing you gain is more pain.

	bacon592: I know what the point of it is.

	Guest pxpdoo: Alas, many people know the point of spite: Non-Deadly Revenge. We can't murder, legally, so we go out of our way to be cruel to those we truly hate.

	jetjetters: because people are weak? i dont know. blame the media!

	boxocereal: I don't know.

	Timoo: Furthermore, there is no point to doing it, people are too blinded by their ignorance and hate to see what they're doing and think rationally...

	Timoo: A urge inside to surround oneself with darkness and hurt others... It's like an itch... the more you scratch it the worse it gets... It's a cycle of pain.

	sweetlikecandy05: have no clue

	photochick88: i have no idea

	boxocereal: Hmm..

	mymindkillsme: Actually I'm going to do that next summer.

	Timoo: I'm probably the only child in my family that gives my parents birthday cards by mail whenever their birthdays come around. I think my parents would want me to go though... My father and I are really close and I live with my mother so she's close as well. They want me to start my own life off somewhere as long as I remember them, which I will.

	punkchikloser: yes i would

	crypticdevotion: Yes ... I am working on that right now. Just have to make sure my boyfriend and I can support ourselves and the baby.

	bacon592: Yeop.

	jd18: yes I agree with michelle.

	rogue_nymph: well, i'd say yes...but i don't want to alienate my mom cuz i love her so fookin much whispers subliminal message: 'tag my guestbook'

	michelleflo: yes.... i cant wait to get out on my own

	jetjetters: yes

	myfriendscallmeghetto: yes

	boxocereal: Yes.

	coolkid19878: All culture oppresses all groups

	Timoo: No, no one can oppress you but yourself. If you allow yourself to be weakened by others then you will become weak. The strong fight against the wind and stand for what they are.

	chocolatte112: who cares>?

	bacon592: Yes.

	rogue_nymph: oh certainly.

	jetjetters: completely. dont even get me started.

	tkdchic: yea, we have to be clean pretty weak and dependent EVERY F**KING DAY FOR THE REST OF OUR LIFES!!!!!!

	boxocereal: They should be but obviously they are not.

	coolkid19878: You've got some tough questions, I don't think so since for example if a person is born disabled or born with a disease that gives the person a short life-span that's not equal. Also people born in lower class urban areas might have a much harder time to succeed then people born in the upper class to rich parents

	Timoo: Yes, the blind man will take anyone's hand as long as he can guide him. If I didn't have vision I would not trust a person based upon a difference I could not see so why should I do it now? Hate only tears a person up from the inside, there is no point to it.

	rock_star8219: we were all created equal, but somehow, we are all different...we were created in the image and likeness of God, and "therefore be perfect, just as your heavenly father is perfect," it's hard to explain, but i hope you get it...

	punkchikloser: obviously not.

	bacon592: Nope. Just look around.

	Lord_Zathras: In the minds of the General Populous of this fine planet: No. Everyone notices that someone else is different. Nothing is equal, especially nowadays - Many believe the Middle Easterners are much less than they really are. Sad, but true, no one person will see everyone as being "equal".

	Guest pxpdoo: No. Some are handicapped (mentally, emotionally, and/or physically), some are gifted (see previous), and most are 'average.' I'd elaborate, but this opens a whole can of worms...

	InkBeast: well yes and no status wise it depends mostly everyone is born with guts skin muscle bone and such so we are born equal but it all depends on what you mean

	tkdchic: yea, but some ppl always have to make it about race even when it has nothin to do with it

	heartbreaker463: no. different races and stuff. pedjudist people are stupid.

	rellenh: Everyone should be equal but that's not the case. Hopefully, someday soon it will.

	jLobOtygrl22: of course. everyone was born with a brain, sum ppl just don't use it to their advantage.

	boxocereal: I'm for it .. you can't help who you love, you're not suppose to.

	coolkid19878: Well most minorities eventually got their rights, so homosexuals probably will sooner or later, why prolong the inevitable?

	crystal_m: I do not agree with the legalization of homosexual marriages. Marriage is the uniting of two people under God, and considering the fact that being a homosexual is a sin, then i don't believe homosexual marriages should be legal. I'm sorry if I offended anyone. This is just my views and beliefs on the subject. All apoligizes

	Timoo: I believe those who stand in their way to have no honor what so ever. It's not my place to judge others and tell them what they can and cannot do. If Jesus does exist and he choses to punish me for not hurting others, so be it, but I will not harm those of whom have done me no wrong. No one has the right to judge and harm others even under the banner of a god.

	punkchikloser: it should be okay. Gay people are no different. they don't live different or act different

	motoxgirl16: I'm for it. Why not? Let people marry who they want to marry.

	jd18: It's not right, homos don't have the right to get married, if we accept them as a couple that should be enough.

	rogue_nymph: as a bisexual, i think it's purrfectly okay. if they love each other, why in the hell can't they get married? this country is so fucking homophobic, its disgusting.

	photochick88: i agree with all the people before me.

	jetjetters: hey, if people can get married heterosexually at 18, then why not homosexually at 32 i mean, they let any guy and girl get married so why not 2 guys or 2 girls? because they cant have traditional sex? or because the pope says its not right? what happened to seperation of church and state?

	sexi~monkies: I think anyone should be able to get married if you are in love then they should be able to get married law or not. My two bestfriends are Bi and have been going out for the longest time (they are girls) I would want to think they would be together for a even longer time maybe someday it will be legal and they could get married. Hey it could happen.

	rellenh: I'm all for it.

	jLobOtygrl22: i think its fine. as long as two ppl are in love, it doesn't matter if they're a guy or girl.

	kat-cw18: Personally i dont really see a problem with it.

	boxocereal: Not to their face.

	Cappucino: I probably have done. And most likely because they have acted like one, minus the payment.

	coolkid19878: Nope, the words really have no meaning in my opinion

	Timoo: Not really... Though I've said I'll never be a man-slut. A slut is someone who has sex randomly and such... I've been friends with people who are called this and people who have called the same person this... I've found those called slut and ostrasized to have been better people than those calling them several times. It's not my place to judge others, especially when I don't know the whole story. If they are a slut so be it, it's not my place to judge them and look down upon them in such a case either.

	Rainbowwench84: hmm we call kelly a whore all the time becuz she asks ppl if they like trains and then she asks them to ride the kelly express and its not like she likes ppl runnin trains on her and she'll admit shes a whore so w/e

	the_always_decieved_crazy_girl: okay the only time i have ever called that to someone and meant it, was my ex, she lied tome about herself completely and well it made me feel bad that she actually was experieced and i was lied ot all that time, thats when i harassed her constantly til she got it stuck in her head that i wasnt stupid or i wasnt gunna be fooled very long...

	rogue_nymph: the only time i call anyone that is when me and my best friends are joking around. like, we'll call each other up and just say "hey you filthy slut, how are ya?" just to be silly

	jetjetters: i called my friend that, but only after she called herself a slut. i thougth it in my mind but i didnt say it out loud until she did

	jLobOtygrl22: no i haven't cause to me, they might be a slut, but to them, they might just be a sexaholic. u never know!

	PRIMO: yeah i call people sluts, hos, whore, prostitutes, head giving hos and other names. i call them that because they sleep around and probably hav every std known to mankind and maybe some new ones waiting to be discovered.

	Leanna1: Yes there was this gurl at my school and boys would go out with her just for sex! she would fuck anyone!

	allstardreamer17: ive called someone a slut because she was hanging all over my friends ex boyfriend telling him to leave my friend because she would give him the thrilll of his life or some crap like that

	angel_eyes84: No but I was called one

	talos1: Well, i've never called a girl a slut or whore before, but i did yell at this one guy for trying to get laid with every girl in school

	boxocereal: Sure.

	Timoo: Do I test myself? I'd say, yes I do. I believe I can do anything if I put my mind to it so on several occurences I have done such to prove to myself that I could. I have never really doubted that I was someone and never have I doubted my worth but it's always good to know that I actually could as I guessed.

	punkchikloser: nope. that's like trying to get others to believe you someone good. i don't care what people think of me so i don't need to prove anything

	jLobOtygrl22: well, i don't know wat u mean, but i always try my hardest at everything so i can be worthy of my self. so yeah, i test myself all the time.

	allstardreamer17: i dont test my self to show im better or anything cuz thats dumb basically like showing off and i hate that! but i do test myself to make myself better or to excell better in things for my own benefit i guess in other words you could say i push myself

	talos1: Once, i did, and the result was not good for me. I've learned now that you i have nothing to prove, even to the most obnoxious of jackasses lol:-)

	boxocereal: I don't know.

	punk4ever: Physically: tall, scrawny, hairy, and very white. Mentally: strong, compassionate, and cynical.

	Timoo: I'd say I have some physical strength and mentally I have some strength there as well... I don't doubt my abilities mentally; when things get harder and more work is needed I always rise above whatever I'm faced with, I don't think there is a limit to my mental abilities (though it sounds cocky). Physically... I'm strong enough to be who I am and live my life. I know that while some people are normally stronger than me in an event where someone I care about is in pain or will face pain if I don't act I could fight off an army though... not in rage but in love.

	the_always_decieved_crazy_girl: I'm a butch lesbian, acctractive, and weird in a mental artistic way...

	thedj49sgirl: physically I am an athletic build, and mentally I am so destroyed I am not sure you would be able to find any sort of life in there.

	Guest pxpdoo: Genius IQ, 99.3% superior physical traits.

	rogue_nymph: physical--beautiful ; mental--smart, witty, a bit creepy, but slowly going insane

	tkdchic: physical- i guess nice lookin mental- emotional screwed at a young age but is happy alot of the time

	jLobOtygrl22: physically, i have dirty blonde hair and blue eyes and im like 5'4, and mentally, i'll just keep it short and say that sumtimes i just think too much

	jetjetters: messed up

	allstardreamer17: physically: im in shape, brown hair and my eyes change colors and mentally: im smart whenever i apply myself and im sensitive but i still have a lot to learn

	talos1: Physically, I'm stocky, that's all i'm gonna say. Mentally, i've become quiet and strong willed. Years of emotional experiences has left me tempered like a sword. Right now is probably the best I've ever been

	Shaman: make that "trying to define myself accurately"

	Shaman: scary...? Ok, probably not what you wanted, but I don't feel comfortable trying to define myself. I am what I am...mentally anyway. I have a picture in my profile and am 6'2" and 210lbs.

	PRIMO: physically i'm in decent shape and mentally i'm a down to earth person.

	boxocereal: I don't know.

	Timoo: No choice to love them equally? :) I'd love my partner more if that option is not a choice... kids are wonderful and I'd love to bring them up, but I'm not going to forget about the one person who completed me.

	rock_star8219: unconditional love would come for both of them, so that would be a hard decision to make

	punkchikloser: probably the kid

	whybother: no one more or less differently my husband i wold love as in romantically and my kid i wud love as a mother

	jd18: both unconditionally, there's no other way.

	rogue_nymph: both equally, in different ways

	jLobOtygrl22: i'd probably love the kid more, cause u know, i went through all that pain of labor for this kid, and i'd be damn proud of what that got me.

	Nellys_Cutie: I DONT KNOW IM NOT IN THAT SITUATION AND NO MOTHER OR WIFE SHOULD HAVE TO MAKE THAT DECISION

	angel_eyes84: I would love them the same just in different ways. My lover and my child but they will get the same attention

	InkBeast: hmmmmm I'd have to say both because love isn't exactly divided when you love some one then love someone else you don't have less love you get more comprende? yeah so I'd love them both

	talos1: it's gotta be both

	dormsby: I have to agree with GeorgeBob. I think that I would love both my partner, and my child more than anything, but i different ways.

	GeorgeBob: You love them both differently...

	_Lisa_: i would say the kid becuz as a women u bond ALOT more wit it then the father plus if u had a child and u were married and sum 1 told u to choose 1 or the other iam SURE u would choose ur kid/s but i aint havin kids so i will just love my dog lol

	boxocereal: I think so .. it made me a lot more happier I can tell you that!

	Timoo: I'd like to say yes, but it's too late. The hate in the world is growing and spreading faster and faster. Hate from prejudice, hate from religious beliefs praising hate, hate from the anti-religious people, hate from desire, hate from lust, hate from greed, and so on. People will always have envy of those higher than them and those higher will always have their pride... It's always been this way... I guess love could save us if those preaching hate stopped but the chances of such ever happening are slim. I'm not trying to attack the church here, you're from Texas so I'd imagine religion is in your background, but you have to feel the hate and see the hate coming from most of the religious leaders. It's so thick I can feel it whenever they talk. Love can never be formed by hurting others.

	the_always_decieved_crazy_girl: I believe fully it can

	punkchikloser: in many cases...no

	rebob: Yes

	Guest pxpdoo: It may sound corny, but love the ONLY important thing in the world. Love is literally the glue of society (and most of Religion, which itself is glue).

	jd18: yes, love is very powerful; to love and be loved will save us.

	jLobOtygrl22: it can save us from some things, like lonliness.

	angel_eyes84: Love works in mysterious ways...It helped my grandma pull through the love all of us made her fight for her life

	talos1: love is the only thing that can keep us from blowing the world apart

	Lizzie: it's not love that makes the world go 'round, it's money that does.

	missymoo692: unfortunately not, but then again it depends on what ur being saved from

	rellenh: It saved me..

	dormsby: Love can do a great many things, if you want to let it.

	boxocereal: Both? lol..

	ixi: I don't think it's blessed or has anything to do with god. I just think it's a wonderful celebration of the highest form of commitment between to people.

	Timoo: It's a beautiful thing in my opinion. Pride has tainted it however in recent times. A true marriage is the connection between two people in love to make them one. The church has tainted it with its pride and hateful speech. Those closest to god somehow believe they deserve the right to judge man... Their power has gone to their heads.

	punkchikloser: overcooked concept

	GaRbAgEgLaM: it's suppose to be a blessed union...but it's sad people don't seem to care anymore...

	jLobOtygrl22: sort of both, but i think that it's an overcooked concept b/c if u love sum1, having a wedding won't make u love them more. it'll just put u thousands of dollars in debt. as long as ur with them, it doesn't matter whether u get married or not.

	jetjetters: both. i mean being with the same person for a long time is a "blessed union" but marriage itself is pointless if its just going to end in divorce a year later

	talos1: very much a blessed union- an expression of how much two people love each other

	missymoo692: its a permenant death wish lol

	dormsby: I would have to agree with Xyphlon....Marriage can be an awesome thing, or it can be hell. It is whatever two people make it into.

	Xyphlon: both, it depends on what both people make of it. . . . .Xyphlon

	Durak: It started off as a blessed thing but now its a life goal.... to find someone to marry... it just got fucked up...

	boxocereal: I don't know.

	Timoo: I was poisoned as a kid by eating a poisoned berry if that counts... that or chickenpox... but I never was endangered of dying from that.

	chocolatte112: stomach flu, cuz i HATE throwing up, it's gross. i hate all bodily functions. ew ugh grosssss. or a urinary tract infection, that was pretty bad. it burned when i peed, then the medicine i took made me nauseus for four days. that was gross.

	Rainbowwench84: i dont know if it was an illness but i had seizures alot when i was lil but i dont remember them

	punkchikloser: um...fever

	rebob: I have central sleep apnea it means that wehn i go to sleep my brain stops sending messages to my muscles to breath. But I'm getting treatment for it

	Imasinner: A bone marrow type infection.

	_Lisa_: a chest infection i wasnt allowed to leave my house for 2 weeks my docter said that if i didnt go in when i did i could have bein addmited to the hospital and could have died if it got worse cuz it was like everytimg u breath it felt like sum 1 punching u in the chest or u have a broken rib it killed like a bitch so i stayed home for 2 weeks and missed 2 weeks of skool and then guess whatmy princapal does KICKS ME OUT of skool cuz he said i missed to much time sure i skipped alot but fuck when u have a docters note sayin DO NOT leave the house 4 2 weeks u shouldnt get kicked outta skool for that like wtf it was int he middle of winter to which would have made it WAYYYYY worse

	jetjetters: when i was 7 i had a 105 degree fever for over a week and then i had it while i was in the hospital for a week....they enevr figured out what it was though....

	hyperhedral: being able to see in only three dims

	angel_eyes84: cat scratch fever

	InkBeast: being human

	knock-out: umm pink eye

	fyre_jewel: I had the pneumonia once. and salmonella was pretty damn disgusting. shudders

	dormsby: Asthma...The sensation of not being able to breathe. Very Painful, and quite annoying.

	ckrme: chicken pox when I was 1 year old and lately toynslitis and strep throat. I get tyonselitis and strep throat every single year. It bounces between the 2 though.

	missymoo692: hmm either mono or pnemonia

	rellenh: I'm disabled.. I get illnesses often.

	pieface102: we don't know what it was it left me in the hospital for 3 weeks

	HBKDLS: I don't know if it's an illness or not, but I severly bruised my sternum when I was 12 and was laid up for about a week.

	talos1: I had Bronchitis about 8 years ago....... i think it was almost fatal if i didnt get it checked out in a week or two.

	green_dragon: maybe flu or something like chicken pox?

	boxocereal: Nah.

	Timoo: No.

	Malinka: Yes. I go for as long as I can, I try for every day. I used to do the classic 'sit down and breathe till the cows come' but it didn't really do anything, so now I just found a new way. Its from a yogo move, the tree pose. It works really well because it forces you to concentrate. If you lose concentration, you fall over.

	punkchikloser: nope. you need to relax for that and i can't relax

	jLobOtygrl22: i don't know how to meditate. yelling at other ppl is my form of meditation which i do pretty often. :)

	fyre_jewel: I find meditation quite impossible, but then again I might not be trying hard enough...

	missymoo692: i like sittin in my bed listenin to the rain and incense and candles around but i dont think its meditation, its just a way for me to relax.

	pieface102: no I don't like the silence

	talos1: I basically daydream when im alone........... i dont know if thats meditation or not but its relaxing.

	green_dragon: ive never meditated

	PabloHibiki: I really don't have time to meditate. School is very time consuming. (or should I say all consuming?)

	boxocereal: Nothing.

	coolkid19878: I believe in a Superior force and it just sounds strange to me that there isn't a greater power, I have some issues with most major orgaized religions in the world today since they do seem to contridict themselves

	crystal_m: I believe in God, and I also believe that Jesus Christ is the Savior. He can to earth to cleanse everyone of their sins. God created everything on this earth, including everyone on it. I have given my life to serve him because of all he has done for me . . . and I pray that one day everyone will get saved and live their lives for him. Then we can all spend eternity in heaven rather than hell.

	Timoo: I believe there is a force out there calling to me but I do not know what it is. The man gods... pagans, christians, jews, and such all are tainted with pride... Not to say Jesus never existed or I doubt him, but if he did exist I doubt he would have wanted Christianity to turn out the way it did in the end... Wasn't Jesus the kind one? The one who helped a prostitute? I doubt he would be happy with the leaders of religions if he were here today. Why do I believe there is a being? Despite the fact I don't know? I can feel it... I know a stupid reason but I can feel something surrounding everything. Life itself.

	punkchikloser: i believe in nothing

	rogue_nymph: I believe in a Great Something watching over us

	WINNYS_BALLER: i dont believe in anything i think it is all bullshit cause if god is so great and powerful how come everthing is fucked up and people kill other people in the name of god it just doesnt make sence to me

	tkdchic: i belive in myself- i believe in something beyond death and ppl create their own hells i also believe in Buddha and rencarnation

	jLobOtygrl22: i was raised(basically forced) to believe in God and Jesus. but then my uncle died in a bike crash and i've sort of lost faith in everything. it's so hard cause he was only 40 yrs. old! for all those ppl who say everything happens for a reason, i'm still waiting to find out why he died

	angel_eyes84: I believe in god and I believe in Jesus...B/c if it wasnt for him we wouldn't be here

	missymoo692: i believe in myself, because i am here and i exist and i live on earth with people and yea, so blah what does the rest of it matter?

	rellenh: I believe in the Goddess because Christianity is shit.

	talos1: I believe in God because I was raised in a Catholic family, but I don't go to church or anything. I believe in a heaven and a hell, but i also support Charles Darwin. Just for fun, before football games i pray to Ares, the Greek God of war lol. Yeah, im a geek, arent i?

	crystal_rainbow: I believe in Satan. And I also believe that this universe was created by a boy doing a science experiment. I don't worship Satan by the way, I just believe in him.

	InkBeast: god was invented by man no I do't believe in god but I believe in a energy that goes throughout everyone and every living thing and it makes more sense than one all powerful being doesn't it? I think so but each to their own is what I always say

	satangirl666: I believe in nothing because thsi whole "god" thing doesn't make sense. If god created all, then who created god? There has to be a logical explanation for everything and there isn't on for god. therefore hes not real.

	MsCinderella16: Yes. God, because that is how I have been brought up to believe in.

	boxocereal: A few times.

	coolkid19878: I think so

	Timoo: Yes, well if you mean nothing else matters in my life. I'm always thinking about things... the environment... animal cruelty... but besides that if it had to do with me and my pains, yes! :)

	punkchikloser: yeah....but it only last 5 days and it's ben gone for about 10 months now

	jLobOtygrl22: yeah, it was when i met this guy, and i knew he was special, as soon as i saw him, and he came over to me, and i forgot about all my problems. but, my friend ruined it and said "oh he's only a guy, it's not like ur gonna marry him. and he's not that cute." then my problems started to come back. but it was good for the 3 hours while it lasted.

	angel_eyes84: Yes but that all went away when he left me and I had a miscarriage

	blueskysea: YUP!!! everytime!

	fyre_jewel: Yes!

	missymoo692: yep

	talos1: so far, i've never been happier than this year.

	green_dragon: yes

	dormsby: Yes, I have.... Especially for the last couple of days %)

	-rockin-wiv-roach-: Yeah, Right Now =)

	MsCinderella16: Yeah

	imthegreenfairy: I wish

	EvilFroggyGurl: yep...but then when reality had hit me...it kinda sucked then

	fruity_loop: Yes,and it was the best time of my life!It sounds real crazy but nothing -and I mean NOTHING-in the whole world mattered to me or worried me.I was that happy!

	boxocereal: Yes.

	Timoo: Not really... I live in the North East... while some people like that do exist I really haven't made friendships with them... maybe out of intuition? Not sure but never had that problem... If I did I'd probably try and explain to them how absurd they're being or I'd explain how that's, "not cool."

	punkchikloser: yeah, he seemed so nice and smart. then i found out he was good at lying. he told me he broke up with his g'f, but he didn't so he ceated on her with me...i didn't know that though

	tkdchic: yea that's how alot of ppl are- sometimes you just got to let go

	jLobOtygrl22: yeah, like my 3 best friends. and then i found out that they were complete bitches and were spreading rumors about me and denying everything, when i did nothing to them. so, they were abusive towards me in that they hurt my feelings, they were prejudice against me b/c i didn't wear extremely tight and ugly clothes like they did.

	bsmartblonde: I once fell in love with a guy and later found out he was older and he the fact that he hid his divorce and two kids.

	angel_eyes84: I liked this guy and he liked me (well at least he acted like it) and then I found out he was bisexual

	rellenh: My ex had a fear of different religions. He broke up with me because I wasn't Christian.

	green_dragon: yeah one of my friends is homophobic

	crystal_rainbow: I found out some of my friends are a bit homophobic, but it doesn't bother m. as long as they don't insult my gay friends or my sister then I'm fine with it. If they discriminate because of sexual preference, or race or sex or owt like that then it's their problem not mine.

	MsCinderella16: Yeah. I really took a step back and looked at what I thoght I knew about that person and what I didnt know and decided if I still wanted to be friends with them. It sucks when u think u know someone and u really dont.

	boxocereal: Being a little kid or feeling real love for a guy for the first time .. amazing.

	Christine89: Love.

	Christine89: Love.

	punk4ever: August 19th, 2000; the day I met my Angel.

	Timoo: :) It's too corny to put here.

	rock_star8219: when i spent all my time with my grandmother when i was a kid, when she taught me all i know about music, and singing, and the piano, and the guitar...she is one of the few people i look up to the most, and i'm proud of having her in my life...i really do miss her...

	sonja_belle: when my cousin Luci came to live with us and the birth of my sister

	punkchikloser: july 2-7 of 2002

	tkdchic: last summer- a few ppl i knew and me went to Myrtle Beach, SC with little money and a van- it was 2girls(with me) and 4 guys we stayed there for a few days and slept in the van on the beach we went surfing and played the guitar on the boardwalk for extra cash we saved enough money for the last night to eat at hard rock cafe -god it was fun

	angel_eyes84: Going to Florida with the band and my best friends we had a blast at all the Disney Parks...And playing in the room where they create the sounds and music to the cartoons...It was so much fun playing the clarinet and learning out to do stuff with the instrument for movies I learned alot that day

	talos1: realizing that i had to be who i was and not like everyone else, and finding out that there are some people that are great friends. Sort of like a revelation =)

	dormsby: October 19, 2002 %)

	crystal_rainbow: Holding Stealth's hand. It was a couple of nights ago

	MsCinderella16: Sep. 6th 2002 at the KISS 103.5 Star Party where I met Nick Carter. AFter 6 years of following him and BSB it was a dream come true. I got to hug him and d*mn he smells so good! :)

	_Lisa_: when it was my 4th birthday and i woke up went down staiirs and found a small lil collie in a crate she looked exactly like Lassie she was my preasent i was so happy i had her until july when we put her to sleep i miss her so much thast probly now my worst memory of her bein put down but i was there till the end with her

	Angelicfaerie: When I woke up from a bad wreck & all of my friends were around me, some sleeping some holding my hand, some crying, & some awake & worried!It was the fact I learned alot of the people i didn't think cared 4 me did & I knew then who was true till the end!

	boxocereal: A couple of times.

	rabababa: Yes, in London I was crossing the street to the British Museum. I looked left, saw no cars and stepped into the street. When the lorry hit me I went up into the air and as I did I thought: "That was stupid. That was stupid." But I wasn't badly hurt and no bones were broken.

	Timoo: Yes, one time I thought I was dead for a little bit... I was on the operating table having my wisdom teeth removed (obviously no danger) and I passed out mid operation... it was weird... I could hear the last thing said outloud repeating over and over again fast and the last thing I saw with my eyes was spinning around faster and faster and I was struggling wanting to live. Eventually the spinning turned red and it stopped... I could feel blood in the back of my throat and my stomach was warm. The noise stopped too and it was quiet. The first thought on my mind was what about my family and everyone and what would they think, I think I'm dead... but slowly I began to relax and I accepted my death and I slowly sunk into the quiet comforting feeling... a second later I came to and they told me the light they used for my mouth broke over me mid operation so they had to move me into another room. :) Though I have no fear of death anymore so maybe that's a good thing it happened?

	chocolatte112: i was walking home in a bad neighborhood alone with my keys between my knuckles in case sum1 tried to rape me, and that was it. i thougt i was going to die that night.

	emotional_gurl: yes, my parents were alwayz told that i would not live past my 3rd b-day but look at me now 15 years later. i am now 18 and am very happy that i am alive!

	angel_eyes84: Yes...I almost got hit by a semi when I ran out in the middle of the road to save a puppy from being hit

	artsymodel: yeah. i was an emotional wreck a few years ago and i thought my head would fall off from insanity. now i think i have kidney disease or something

	fyre_jewel: Yeah. I was quite positive. But no matter how sure you are, there is always that little hope. haha...cause I think that as long as you're still alive..you must not want to be dead. Makes sense, doesn't it?

	rellenh: The doctors thought so. I'm still alive.

	pieface102: yeah I almost drowned at the wave pool in Wet'N'Wild

	talos1: Yes, in 7th grade. i had problems that year.

	photochick88: yes, when we had to put our dog Tasha down. i was crying so much when i said goodbye to she, i sometime still cry for her at night when im trying to fall asleep.

	_Lisa_: or when i found my dog of 13 yeasr layin outside she couldnt move and we had her put down i thought i was gona die cuz of so much pain it was to loss her

	_Lisa_: yeah when i was hit by a car i was knocked unconsios and was havin 1 of those out of body experiences

	PabloHibiki: Yes, when I had my wisdom teeth pulled, I was in great physical and mental pain. The doctor gave me enough pain killers for a few days but that didn't last. I absolutely could not eat ANYTHING, not even Jello, for over 3 weeks. I was starving. There was a lot of food but I could not eat it. That is what torture is like.

	alana69: ya i took 32 coricedin and i had to go to the hospital my mom was there i was crying she was crying i never did that again

	boxocereal: I don't know.

	Timoo: Hmm I think I was outside and a plant man came out of the garden and chased me around. I was really young... I don't think a plant man could scare me now.

	punkchikloser: i don't have bad nightmares. i like nightmares. i like being scared

	jetjetters: when i was in preschool i had this dream that i was at the grand union with my mom and brother and it burned down and everyone was watching but we were still inside while my brtoher ate el fudge cookies (ya know the elf ones?)

	angel_eyes84: I was in the car with a bunch of friends and we all went cruisin and we got hit by a semi and went over the bridge into a river and we all died

	artsymodel: that my mom ran over my best friend

	pieface102: That time I was rolling down a hill getting short by some hot guy

	talos1: We lost to Johnstown our Senior year

	lostfrozensoul: I had a nighmare that I wasthe only person left on earth...it's weird because I always houht I would enjoy being by myself and having no one there to bother me, but I didn't realize how scary and lonely it could get....so I guess I learned to appreciate the company of other people.

	nikkibabe87: One time I dreamed that my mom was crushed by a column and she died.I woke up crying.

	siaho: i was watching myself, from a third person point of view, as i walked through an old mansion, and a giant bee (the size of, say, a flying irish wolf hound) with one human eye, and a sadistic grin killed me. i was 4 when i had this dream for the first time

	boxocereal: A dog LOL I know that's silly but I want one so bad .. a Golden Retriever to be specific.

	Timoo: Greatness. I don't know but I have a feeling.

	Malinka: Yes

	May_S: Well I'm going to marry my current boyfriend, and my career will be biology-related. That's all that I know for sure. (Oh and God, but he's one of those givens in my mind! =) )

	photochick88: children

	jLobOtygrl22: no, but i hope its a husband who loves me, a big house, 2 kids, a good college degree, and a nice job.

	talos1: live long and prosper.

	_Lisa_: umm a pair of shoes lol........ummm a farm

	lostfrozensoul: some really hard times....my life so far is a rollercoaster that has some pretty bad drops.

	dormsby: yes. My best friend with me. %)

	Liam87: Two university degrees

	bolowbc: i know it's gonna be full of good times, bad times, happy times, sad times, and it's gonna be a trip that only i will experience

	boxocereal: I don't know.

	Timoo: Hmm not sure...

	Everythings_relitive: none i don't belivev in them

	punkchikloser: that preps suck

	May_S: Same as mytruelove, actually. I realized how bad I am about that when I heard this group of boys talking with a lot of slang (sounded like what they call ebonics) and I started thinking they were less intelligent, but then I got closer and heard them talking about a computer science project. It made me laugh at how dumb I can be sometimes. Plus, "Daaaang man, no, you don't initialize that shit in that method!" just sounds funny.

	jLobOtygrl22: i think that if ppl act bitchy, they're a bitch, which is almost always true, unless they have pms.

	talos1: All preps are stuck up, rich, popular brats. Well, they are, aren't they?

	crystal_rainbow: The cheerleader one. there was a cheerleader in my room last year before I came, and she was apparantly the block whore for the year. That's why I hardly spend any time in my room.

	lostfrozensoul: I usually judge people by how much they enjoy putting down other people....I can't stand that sh*t...

	JewlzBlack: How people dress.

	mytruelove: I judge ppl by the way they speak too much... like if I see a black guy talking slang a lot and using curses a lot, I'll assume he does drugs and other bad things... -_-

	boxocereal: Yes.

	Timoo: I've thought such thoughts but more angry at how weak I am of a person. Not in a religious way, but as I cannot control how my mind sometimes thinks...

	crypticdevotion: Doesn't everyone? Heh Heh

	GaRbAgEgLaM: yea, and then i feel so bad...but it's kind of hard to help it sometimes...

	jLobOtygrl22: yeah, i'm always scared to be near a priest, cause i think they might molest me, and then i have to try to get out of my head cause im in church...or what this kid(whose about 3 years too old for me) would look like if we had sex. i think way too much lol!

	fyre_jewel: I am constantly doing this..hahahahaha...I'm always giving myself a mental slap in the face!!! BAD THOUGHTS, BAD!

	pieface102: Yeah I like about that a lot. Also think about people having sex.

	Liam87: Why is how people look nude such an unacceptable thing? Why are people so uptight? If I didn't get detention for it and assuming it was warm enough, I'd probably go to school in my underwear (which is halfway there)

	bolowbc: i know what you're talking about but that hasn't happened since so long that i don't really think about it anymore

	talos1: yes i have before, but I took the thought out of my head. I still regret it, though

	mytruelove: hahahahaah!! Yeah!!! I feel bad bc I'm ashamed of what I have just done...

	HBKDLS: Umm.. yeah, because after I do it I tend to not be able to think of that person in any other context.

	boxocereal: Nah.

	Timoo: No, but anyone who abuses their partner doesn't deserve a partner at all.

	MsCinderella16: I was with someone who was mentally and emotionally abusive to me. We broke up when I couldnt take it anymore. U can only let something like that go so far.

	Angelicfaerie: yes, I left him & the thing that made me say anofe was the fact along w/ him hurting me I was hurting myself & my Best guy friend Nick set me down & sliced open his wrest & said this is what U do 2 me & this is what he does 2 me;the only reason I can't kill him is b/c I don't want 2 leave U but if he comes near U again he's mine! so I left the guy & i've never been happier!

	_Lisa_: bad yeah like been in jail and shit mosts guys i go out wit r like that lol but they rnt abusive..more like iam lol

	iwishalot: ...i told a close friend and she made me call the cops so i have a restraining order against him

	boxocereal: Nope.

	coolkid19878: I tried, but they all ended up in strange loops leaving me to believe that the universie is beyond human reason

	punk4ever: Once, while I was on speed. I forgot it all once it wore off.

	Timoo: Yep. :) I believe my reason is the reason though I don't believe I have the right to force others to believe it as well.

	IceCatsBlues3520: creation

	jLobOtygrl22: nope, and i know i'll never find out in this life, so i don't waste my time thinking about it.

	lostfrozensoul: yeah, I thougt about it....but why would any1 raly want to find that out, if we fnd ou the "true" explanation of the universe than maybe we'll also figure out what and when the conclusion will be....and I really don't think that I want to know....

	bolowbc: so when you're thinking it's going to some amazing paradigm shift...it could be right in front of your nose

	bolowbc: explaining the universe is like explaining why a drop causes a ripple in the pond; sure you can explain the physics and the fluid mechanics jargon, but is that really the explanation you are searching for? and if it's not, perhaps that really is all there is too it; sometimes ppl try to glorify things too much to seem more important

	talos1: I think the truth about the universe is beyond the comprehesion of the human mind. We must look to something greater or higher for the answer.

	punkrockforever: Yes. I pondered the thought before. I was thinking that if someone could explain the big bang, then it would either prove there was no god, or open even more possibilites. I thought that maybe our universe might be doomed to repeat over and over to infinity as stars break up and reform, which means the planets would collapse, or go completely out of orbit and find another object to encircle. Then the star would reform and so would the planets, and the whole process would repeat itself for infinity.

	boxocereal: I don't know.

	Timoo: Sanity is relative. There is no standard.

	alexislauren: Yea but who knows what it is

	punkchikloser: no. normal is a joke. their is no such thing

	jLobOtygrl22: i don't know what the definition is, but a lot of ppl appear normal, but on the inside i believe that everybody has wars with themselves. the ppl who can keep it together on the outside are the ppl that everyone calls normal, but in reality, they're as crazy as everyone else.

	hyperhedral: they must know integration it should be a standard like common knowledge

	bruisedinjection: I seriously doubt it. every human body is unique.

	moosemaniac1: NO... standards do not exist... just a bunch of crazy people who act similar saying they're more normal than the rest of us crazy people

	punkrockforever: No. There is also not a standard for normal adults. Why would it be any different. Every person is unique, so why try to create a perfect model if nobody can force themselves to become like that.

	Liam87: No. People just think there is in order to be as close to it or as far away from it as possible. Interesting how you can be close to something that does not exist. Like a pot of gold at the end of a rainbow.

	boxocereal: Falling in love.

	punk4ever: love and punk rock

	Timoo: The death of my best friend.

	punkchikloser: my grandma being in the hospital. it scared me but i didn't show it. she's the only family i love

	jLobOtygrl22: i think that my conscience affects me the most, cause if i didn't have one, i'd have the biggest police record imaginable.

	dormsby: you

	angel_eyes84: I slept with my boyfriend I told him I was pregnant he left me I had a miscarriage and I told our parents and they told me that it was a lie it was all a lie b/c I was just trying to hurt him.

	iwishalot: my grandfather dying... and my (x) best friend telling me she never liked me, she was just using me cuz i was there.

	dormsby: Acceptance by my peers, and love from a certain person.

	legolasluvsme: umm nuttin has really effected me im jus a normal teen

	boxocereal: I did when I was younger, not anymore.

	punkchikloser: i used to, but i don't anymore

	jLobOtygrl22: it's so hard to be myself, cause im afraid that ppl won't like me for who i am. if i act like sum1 else and ppl don't like me, i don't care cause that's not me, so that's why i sumtimes put on a front

	angel_eyes84: Yes I have but then I stopped and I feel like a much better person b/c I know I am me and not someone else

	santina_f: i don't but if i did and i stopped ppl might be pretty pissed off or think i am schizzo

	black-cat: I try to be completely me even if people think I'm weird or don't like me. It's a sign of weakness if you be someone you're not, and I've found more people like you if you're just yourself!

	boxocereal: Of course.

	Timoo: Not the love I can feel inside I still have yet to find a partner for, but a form of love, yes.

	Tempest7: Yes! I do love my parents for who they are!

	sonja_belle: yes!!with all my heart

	punkchikloser: no

	May_S: I definitely love them both. I prefer spending time with my mom, but my dad is a great guy.

	guitargirlkatie: i hate my dad, sometimes i like my mom, but im moving out of the house as soon as i go to college and can survive on my own and never coming back

	jLobOtygrl22: i luv my mom, but i'd have to go w/IlliadXF's answer for my dad. he just annoys me so much, and he's such a hypocrite, and he's always on some business trip, so i just never learned to love him. and as u get older, things get harder to do, so i've just given up on my dad. i feel horrible, but i can't change the way i feel about him-i've tried so hard.

	rellenh: My relationship with my parents is a love 'em / hate 'em. They're currently not talking to me because I'm Wiccan.

	MsCinderella16: Most of the time... lol

	bolowbc: of course i do; only if the parents aren't good parents, which i'm starting to doubt less and less that it can't happen, then all children love their parents

	_Lisa_: yes i love my mom and iam with jackie she gives me my money and i love my grandparents which i also live wit but for my dad he can just go and die i hate him

	iwishalot: I love my mama...

	BoricuaKitty: yups

	black-cat: I love my mummy soo much! she's one of my best friends

	dessia: Yes i love both my parents with my dear heart.

	scoobys_kitten: YES!!!!

	jakie: sure do, they give me my money!

	JAZZY1984: YES

	lilteasek: yes i do love my parents

	GaTechGrl1983: If it weren't for my parents supporting me and loving me I wouldn't be here to tell you that today. My parents (yes get on my nerves) and I get our fights sometimes, but I still love them. I don't know what I would do if I ever lost one of them.

	IlliadXF: You're kidding me, right? I definitely DO NOT love my parents. Love is a nonexisant thing in our household, although there is not constant outrage either. I cannot love them...they are not able to be loved. End of story.

	boxocereal: Seems like it.

	Christine89: No, love is not blind. Love is when you see EVERYTHING, but even after seeing their flaws and imperfections, you still could never want anyone else.

	Timoo: You mean like people love each other even if they don't click on a looks level? I'd say beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Looks matter a lot in the beginning of a relationship but by the time love kicks in they no longer matter. They are important for a relationship to start, however, so while I believe love is blind, I believe attraction isn't.

	playmate10: sometimes

	IceCatsBlues3520: no, infatuation is blind, love is not

	sonja_belle: yes!!! and sometimes it is stupid

	jLobOtygrl22: yes, it is. cause u can't help who u love. no, wait a minute, i change my answer. love isn;t blind, b/c love sees right through a person's outer appearance and looks at their heart. love is patient, love is kind, love is blind to some things...omg it sounds just like an old person!

	MsCinderella16: Yes. U love who u love and u cant ever help that.

	mytruelove: No.... only people who can't control it become blind

	iwishalot: i believe so... you can't control who you fall in love with and that person might be totally different than what you were looking for...

	dormsby: Without a question, yes.

	black-cat: love is whatever you want it to be

	black-cat: love is whatever you want it to be

	scoobys_kitten: Love is everything and nothing combined into one.

	artfearie: i think love just has a stigmatism. some laser surgery and glasses, and it'll start seeing again.

	flounder: nup... just near sighted (or far sighted)

	imthegreenfairy: No it just needs contacts.

	cutecaliguy18: yes because there are some people u tell them that there bf or gf are cheating on them they just wont belive you. There so caught up in love that they wont belive you. Like when a man hits a girl. The girl will still stay in the relationship cause she will just say that he hits her because he loves her

	baseballgirl05: I think it is

	kelsoca: Or at the very least has extremely poor eyesight.

	boxocereal: Maybe finding out who you are.

	Timoo: Watch those you love die because you couldn't help them. My life is meaningless to me, the only thing I care about is those I care about... watching them die would be like my spirit dying slowly along with them.

	rock_star8219: having your parents get divorced, having friends, but if they don't trust you, then how can you trust them?, ummm...failing in life, destroying your mental, emotional self just by living the way people want you to is the bottom line

	May_S: Lose a child. Whether it's to adoption, death (I'm including miscarriages and abortions here) or kidnapping.

	jLobOtygrl22: to believe in myself, to love myself, to be happy with myself, and i just wish that 1 day, i will accomplish it.

	hyperhedral: tensor calculus

	MsCinderella16: Finding out who u really are and trying to be youself.

	iwishalot: push all fear and insecurities aside...move on gracefully without breaking somehow

	IlliadXF: To know yourself.

	artfearie: i'm right there where flounder is. giving up cutting is the hardest thing.

	flounder: give up cutting

	boxocereal: No idea.

	Timoo: I don't want others to suffer because of my death. I want lots of music and dancing as my ashes are thrown off somewhere (I don't care where). The cheapest way to go to help those below me save money. Lots of laughing, again, at my death. No mourning... It's not the thing I want people to do when they think of me, I want to go out with people still laughing as they remember me.

	punkchikloser: i think you dream for eternity

	jLobOtygrl22: i want to go straight to heaven and see my uncles and aunts and grandparents and (maybe parents) and i want to be happy!

	InkBeast: I want to becloned and sped up so I could be "resurrected" but have a short life span but I would like to say goodbye to every one that I didn't get the chance to say goodbye to

	crystal_rainbow: I wanna be cremated, and then to haunt Bill Gates, and George Bush for that matter. Cause they both suck!

	candycanes_r_scrumptious: i once had this dream and its become my new theory, i guess its pretty much the reincarnation thingy but yeah and i guess this is really what i wish to happen,well i died and i ended up on this like tropical island with yummy drinks with little umbrellas and you like got a ticket with a number and when your number was called you were put into a knew body with the knowledge of your past lives. and i think that would be awsome, but then i got to thinking if i knew everything i know now when i was born (i know im still young but i know more then most people my age and i dont meant book smarts) would we really feel the need to live? hmm im pondering my theory, are you pondering what im pondering?

	bolowbc: interesting question...i'd prefer to think about what kind of life i want to live b4 that happens ;)

	mytruelove: I want people to remember me... and talk about me in a positive way... Hmm, i just made myself sound selfish >_<

	viperchick: well, first of all... I DON'T WANT TO DIE!!!!

	Liam87: Cut me up and give the useful parts to other people and the rest of me can be cremated.

	santina_f: i want to be with my father, my dog colonel, my grandfather jerry, and my uncle steve !RIP!

	artfearie: i want people to be mortified, yet laughing at how i died. i dont' know how that's gonna happen yet, but i want to go out with a laugh. and afterwards, i'm going to rest and then starting my new life (i believe in reincarnation). i want a small head stone, with a bird stature sitting on top of it. aww, how cute

	flounder: to be dead... personally i want my death to get attention because i think that if i get kicked around and ignored and shitted in all the rest of my life i want people to know i am dead so they can go drinking... and if you mean after life, i want peace thats all

	Mystic_Spiral: I want my corpse to be loaded with explosives and dropped into an active volcano. Don't ask me why.

	boxocereal: Nobody really knows until they die.

	crystal_m: It is as simple as this: When you die, you will either spend eternity in Heaven or in Hell.

	Eowyn_Athena: I will reincarnate.

	IceCatsBlues3520: hopefully I'll be going to Heaven!

	rebob: I belive that I'll be goign to heaven

	jLobOtygrl22: ur body either gets buried or cremated; either way, it gets put out of others' way. ur soul either goes to heaven, hell, or purgatory, or takes the place of another living thing. i guess u have to die b4 u find out the truth.

	bruisedinjection: How could anyone answer that..we aren't dead.

	niceguy15: What happens when you die.. Well.. hopefully people come to your funeral and mourn, but realise that we are probably in a better place. As for the heaven/hell thing. I guess when you get to the pearly white gates they have an elevator to hell. But it doesn't work, and never has. If god is truly all-forgiving like we are taught (for christianity and any other religion that is similar) why would he give up on you and send us to hell. I'm sure murderers are let into heaven because the good lord forgave that person, and the person should probably be so touched that he wished he had never murdered anybody.

	_Lisa_: i think u go to heaven i dont really think there is a hell cuz in gods eyes every thing is a sin if u swear its a sin if u cross the road the wrong way its a sin if u litter its a sin ect and every 1 sins in sum way or the other ecept killers they go to there own world then i think u jus chill up in heaven and do what u like to do and then when ur ready u come back down here

	moosemaniac1: your metobolic process ceases to function

	lilteasek: Well.... i think you die but im not sure since i havent died b4!

	artfearie: umm, they strip ya naked and change your clothes into something your parents/family picked out (dear god, my mom's gonna put me in a dress gag)

	flounder: your dead... and you rot and have little creepy crawlers crawl up your nose and eat you from the inside out

	SlipknotBabe: This is an idiotic question ... no one living would know you crackhead!

	redmercury: i wish i knew . .. i think im on a lifelong search to find out

	Uliana: I don't know, I've never died before... lol

	boxocereal: I've had things happen in real life that I remember dreaming about .. it was ****ed.

	Timoo: I doubt it. Though I wouldn't know either way.

	Eowyn_Athena: Yes, it's happened to me several times.

	alexislauren: I had a vision before I wrecked my car. does that count?

	playmate10: ya

	punkchikloser: no

	GaRbAgEgLaM: yes!

	jLobOtygrl22: yea, and the scary thing was, i had a dream where i had a cross that broke, so i think that that means that one day i won't be catholic ne more. i wonder what my mom's gonna say...

	bsmartblonde: I believe that some dreams reveal more than we know.

	MsCinderella16: Yeah, dreams can come true. U just have to work for it. You can do anything u dream.

	mytruelove: they can if they are realistic.

	moosemaniac1: i'm living my dream now...so yes... but i'm just a dreamer, don't take it from me

	iwishalot: yes they can... but does it happen for everyone? no

	Liam87: Not unless you have amazing control over your dreams to be able to dream about what you want.

	BoricuaKitty: Yes not all the time, but it does happen

	artfearie: yeah, they are, for some at least. i know my dreams usually come true, or they show me something about myself that i was looking for. dreams are creepy, but they can be a big help if you look hard enough

	flounder: yes trust me... they can be

	riccio: i think to a certain point they can be true, but the reflect on the days events and things on your mind erm .. i think lol x

	PORSCHER: yes.. somtimes something happens and u know u saw that thing..

	photochick88: Yes, i do that they can come true or be visions. its never happened to me tough. hugs luv ya sis

	cooky_monsterr: That happens sometimes in my dreams; I have a dream about a place I've never seen before, then I go there years later and remember the dream. It's creepy!