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lovingforever86  Profile   Guestbook   Friends   Photo Album   My Q&A   Contact   My Stuff   Personality  lovingforever86's Q & A Click on a question below to answer it and to view other user's answers. lovingforever86 has 13 questions total. lovingforever86 has answered a total of 67 other questions. New! View Q & A Top 50  Racism, political disturbance and revolution, bias, hatred, continued warfare...what do you think would solve all these problems? [and please dont say Armageddon] (16 answers)  gayguyinsussex: sadly they are unsolveable  morrigirl: If anyone actually KNEW don't you think we would have wiped it all out by now?  cheshire_cat: i think, to a certain point, education will help, but in no way, solve all these problems. the majority of the human race will always be ignorant, but they like it that way, so they'll never be willing to change. look at bush for example, he's going to war with iraq, of which 75 percent of people are farmers, and for what? all he's gona kill is innocent people. that's the kind of stuff kids are growing up with. no wonder the human race is the way it is.  artsymodel: I agree with 3/4 of these responses. There won't be an absolute. Racism will always be here. Discrimination is inevitable. People have differnt wants for society and people think there's a right and a wrong way and they don't want to quit and let the "wrong way" win.Well, I don't think we should worry too much about these things because if we do, we'll hate things because it's always going to seem like too much goes on. One thing that would minimize these problems would be media involvement. I don't think they should stop getting information for people though. But if we didn't have T. V. or a radio, we'd think the world were a better place. Well, the only solution that would totally stop hatred would be a lack of any kind of diversity. I don't even mean cloning. I mean a bunch of "humans" that didn't do anything. Maybe they could stay in their houses all day and not have any contact with people whatsoever. Then they'd have to make their own food. That would solve all problems with people. But we'd still have some kinds of problems and that is impossible soooo....the only thing left is Armageddon. We have to deal with the bad because so much good is out there too. It would be no fun to be neutral. The whole world is based on conflict.  Guest Margareth: time...  seashelle: You can't solve them all in one big blow. But there is hope. Everytime someone fights one of these things a step is taken towards abolishing these things. I realise this is an optimistic view but I have to believe that good outweighs the bad and inspires us to stop the bad. I have to believe there is still hope.  confusedchild: nothing..no matter what you do...you cant stop it its like imposible! oh and the education thing..they alrdady teach us all this and not to do it and yadayadayada but its still happeneing..=( ::tear::  paco_santano: .... -_-;; i dont think ne thing will... this answer prob didnt help but wtf!  Leanna1: shit happens! stuff like thats always gonna be around coz theres some fucked up people out there!  PORSCHER: yup .. EDUCATION will do!  soco_ssdd: EDUCATION.  GeorgieBaby333: eh...I hate diversity to a point...I like it if it is good diversity and everyone does get along although we are different, but unfortunately, that will only happen in the movies. So my response is: There is no solution. All those evil things will always be there, unless everyone decides to be ultimately good. Everyone has the potential to be good or evil.  PabloHibiki: What's wrong with armageddon?  michelleflo: one word "diversity"  Natural Intellegence (IQ) or Solid Hark Work...which one do you think gets you farther in life on a financial basis? (11 answers)  artsymodel: I agree w/seashelle. if you don't do anything with your big brain, then that's not cool. i mean you could be unemployed. action is better than potential so i'd say hard work.  seann: work  seashelle: I'd have to say both. Smarts will only get you so far if you aren't willing to work for it.  confusedchild: i agree with paco..lol  paco_santano: SOLID HARD WORK + IQ >_<  thedistrictcat: Solid Hard Work ...because with out it u cant get a good job an so get loads of money  GeorgieBaby333: eh...both get you different places...my sis gets lots of awards for her hard work, but I get in advanced classes and such b/c of natural intelligence...I think it helps if you have natural intelligence when you are artistic, it helps you alot when you start to play an instrument  PabloHibiki: luck  michelleflo: Definitly Natural intellegence... you acnt go anywhere these day unless your smart as hell  -rockin-wiv-roach-: work.  Do you often feel stressed, depressed, or simply like you cant go on with life anymore? If so, how do you deal with it. (17 answers)  hotrdnckchick: Yes I do often feel stressed, which makes me feel depressed. At times like these I go into my room and play some music and try to write poetry or a song, i also get my guitar and play it. I find that music is my best escape from life and all its ordeals. But that is just my way of dealing with it, others may have other ways. It all just depends on the person.  gayguyinsussex: yes i do, i just get on with it + think about good times  Guest Valencia_16: yeah, lately. i try to deal with it by not thinking about the cause for my behavior and by eating or staying active. but really, i haven't really found anything to stop me from feeling the way i do. depression gives you a headache fo real and stress piled onto it is no help either. when you have a good reason then tag me back and let me know, so until then, basketball and running my cure.  artsymodel: yeah, kind of. i'm pretty down right now but i wore out my emotional side when i was 15 and 16 soo i don't feel things much anymore. well, maybe i do, but i'm not as dramatic as i was then i guess. i guess my problems are a little different now i don't know. but once you've thought about ending it, you don't want to think like that again. but i don't like to think about death anymore but i find it sneaking up on me anyway. i usually just dwell on things for a while. i don't really have any solutions. i'm stablily depressed and stressed.  HeavenlieAllie: yeah, music is my transport out of the craziness of the life.. and writing things like poems or music  seashelle: Yeah. I go to sleep or listen to music or watch tv. I just basically do things where I don't have to think about it  confusedchild: oh..and sometimes i just jump in the shower for a long time...or go find people that'll help me feel better and be there for me..comnsidering all my freidns are mostly guyts..its sorta easy to find that..lol  confusedchild: YES! but doesnt everyone? i often hit things and cry..lol..dont wanna take it out on everyone else when its my problem ya know?  paco_santano: i lie in bed or i go outside 4 2 hours  PORSCHER: Sleep and Relax!!  sk8ergrl03: I listen to music, play online, and cuddle with my cat.  sweetsecret: honestly, I eiter take a shower, think about it and gather my determination again so that I can focus on my goals.  sweetlikecandy05: yes...I write..listen to music..hang with friends or cruise the mall  GeorgieBaby333: Hell yeah...I take Zoloft and Zyprexa for depression...btw, Zoloft gives you no sex life!!! waaa! :(  PabloHibiki: Yes, I go to sleep  bee420: i feel like that sometimes, school, work, and those damn boys. i go out and relieve my stress with partying, its bad to take it out on other people  What are your top 10 favorite most loved and most listened to songs ever? [order doesnt matter, not a significance] (11 answers)  mighty_max: I know him by heart, Voda Sphepard is currently my favorite song.... can't think of the rest there are so many...  artsymodel: Not in order...1. Uninvited--Alanis Morrisette 2. Jesu, Joy of Man's Desiring--Johann Sebastian Bach 3. At Last--Etta James 4. Chan-Chan--Buena Vista Social Club 5. Bittersweet Symphony--The Verve 6. Solace--Fuel 7. Theif--Third Day... that's all i want to put!  artsymodel: most loved or most listened to? because there's a big differnce. :) i'll get back to you on that.  seashelle: gosh, ten! thats alot. I'll try to think of ten: -thousand miles by Vanessa Carlton-Reach right down from the play Starmites-My heart will go on by Celine Dion-Memory from Cats-Paperback writer by the beatles... Thats five. Thats all I can think of. I don't listen to alot of music cause I don't have any time. oh, also right now i'm into the soundtrack from the movie Chicago if that counts.  confusedchild: thats really hard for me..i couldnt tell ya it changes like every 5 seconds..lol so im not really suyre if i had the time to sit and think about it, i could prolly figure oit out but i really dunnno...lol  paco_santano: that stevie d remix / Chu Ci Zhi Wai - Van Yi Fan / In the end - linkin park / nookie - LB / hero - chad Kroger / lose yourself - eminem / jenny from the block - j.lo / rollin - LB / one step closer - LP / Rap superstar - Cypress Hill / Party up - DMX / Smooth chrimnal (wrong spelling) AAF / Butterfly - Crazy Town / Beautiful - Crazy Town .............................. etc...  PORSCHER: 1: Hotel California 2: Superman 3: Family Portrait 4: Nothing Else Matters 5: Ain't No Sunshine 6: Gangsta Paradise 7: Cleanin' Out My Closet 8: Maria Maria 9: In The End 10: Always On Time  sweetlikecandy05: 1. have you ever by brandy 2. don't change by musiq soulchild 3. all my life by k-ci & jojo 4. suicede by k-ci & jojo 5. changes by 2 Pac 6. baby don't cry by 2 Pac 7. keep it gangsta by mack 10 8. I swear by all 4 one 9. miss you love by sliverchair 10. gradution(friends forever) by vitamin c  GeorgieBaby333: okay here goes...'Jet' by Wings, 'Buddy Holly' by Weezer, 'Wouldn't it Be Nice' by The Beach Boys, 'Taxman' by The Beatles, 'Crackerbox Palace' by George Harrison, 'Here Comes The Sun' by The Beatles, 'All of Your Toys' by The Monkees, 'I'm A Loser' by The Beatles, 'Lucy in the Sky with Diamonds' by The Beatles, and 'A Day in The Life' by The Beatles.  -rockin-wiv-roach-: woohoo! i can never choose just ONE so this is ok! lol. children of decadence by children of bodom, snakes - papa roach, revenge - papa roach, days of the phoenix - AFI, i think i love you - less than jake, sugar - SOAD, follow the reaper - children of bodom, dressed to kill - new found glory, secret smile - violent delight and synthetic - spineshank.. is that 10?! lol  In your own opinion, what do you think is "wasting time"? (21 answers)  mighty_max: Tose years from 4-16 where you are forced to sit in a class room learning absolutely nothing and getting more and more miserable. I want to LEARN, not do... well... nothing!  artsymodel: well, it wouldn't really be wasting time whatever you're doing. it's all in the perception. but requiem has another good answer.  seashelle: Taking a standardized test. They don't prove anything. We are too obsessed with test scores and all they show is how well you take tests!  confusedchild: wasting time is passing up opportunities that youb have to do something way more contructive, or worthwhile...wasting time is being bored and having pity for yourself..in my opinion  GeorgieBaby333: answering these questions...lol not really...I don't go to school but want to SOOOO bad...so I won't have to repeat a grade and so I can get into art college...whilst not going to school, I am brushing up on my art at home...I wish I could go to one of those schools where all you learn is art related stuff...I would be in heaven  michelleflo: my bio class  -rockin-wiv-roach-: going to school? lol. or mebbe not cuz u *might* need ur qualifications... i dont think theres such a thing.  prettygurl200616: In my opion i thank westing time is siting around doing nuthing geting fat, and doing drugs  ~gothic_gyrll~: answering questions like this =) jk wasting time is doing something not worthwhile  sweetlikecandy05: sitting around and doing absoulty nothing  Uliana: computer games/playstations  kinkysilversky: watering a dead flower  dreamgirl17: Worshiping somone who doesnt give a shit about u  ~SugaBaybi~: Sitting down doing NOTHING! *winkz*  PabloHibiki: Not taking the opportunity to just waste time when the opportunity presents itself. I'm of the opinion that there is just not enough time in the day to do everything I NEED to do, including wasting time."  kurupt69angel: sleeping, though i do enjoy it...  Guest thepoet: Busy work is a waste of time. Small Talk is a waste of time.  PORSCHER: loggin 2 SC every day.. ( u should try some sports )!!!  Why do you believe we are all granted an opportunity at life? (11 answers)  seashelle: yes, we just gotta know what it is and take it! :D  confusedchild: i dunno...i used to say we were only here to reproduce and die..but that was way back when haha...i dunno maybe we all have a mission, maybe we're here to love someone..maybe we're just here to make things interesting..lol..or maybe we were just a mistake..lol jp  GeorgieBaby333: yeah, I think so but, in the words of George Harrison...( song: Any Road)it's a game, sometimes you're cool, sometimes you're lame. Ah, yeah, it's somewhere, and if you don't know where you're goin', any road'll take you there.  michelleflo: umm were all born so we all have the opp to live. lol j/k Scholarships, grants, welfare, shelters.. everyone can be heped out... everyone can make it in our country if they want to bad enough  ~gothic_gyrll~: live and learn... because we are all equal no matter what race, gender etc. and we get our shots at sucess then live and let live lol did i make sense?  sweetlikecandy05: we all are put on this earth for a reason....everyone has thier goals in thier lives.....got a life to live so live it the best you can and don't waste it away by sitting around cause life is what you make of it and life is all about getting up and doing things like making friends and so much more....life gives us alot of opportunitys in life so take what you got cause you might be your last chance at it  kinkysilversky: I think we are all here to complete a mission.  morrigirl: At this point I'm pretty convinced that life is just a freak natural accident.  PabloHibiki: I think to live is to learn. Perhaps to better the world?  Given the environment you live in, how do you, personally, feel about the people who surround you? and furthermore, how do you think they feel about you? (16 answers)  artsymodel: I thinnk that 90% of the people are decent. I don't have a huge problem with them, but they wouldn't be my best friends. %% of people I just don't like. And the other 5% are really good people. I don't think anyone knows me too well. I'm someone's definition of a rock in real life. I think people think I'm a needy little baby who doesn't like to have any fun.  Guest Margareth: the ppl around me (mostly the ones in school) are extremelly shallow and simple minded... you wouldnt wnat to meet them -_- they think like typical teens, and their opinions on different matters are so elementary and basic. And when they make an opinionated comment, they never say anything ot back up in what they believe. They are very...umm... not well rounded? -_- I don't like any of them -_- I wish I could have better friends around me.. ones that I don't just talk about "surface" stuff to. They are too dumb to understand what I'd be talking about if I went any deeper... how lame. -_-  seashelle: I like most of them except that they leave me out alot. I think they think i'm weird or boring.  confusedchild: i think the world could be 10 times better than it is, but lazy people like the ones i live around, dont take the time to fix things up and make things better.. im not sure how the people feel about me... i hope not too bad, but ya never know..lol  GeorgieBaby333: Some are cool and nice, and some suck...and that's the way it is :)  dancefreak: I dont really like any type of people, even the ones that are close to me. I rather be alone my whole life,the reason I feel this way towards any person, well, I really just do not know.  ~gothic_gyrll~: i feel confused people say one thing then do another, love u then leave u, etc...  kinkysilversky: People around me challange my endurance,and place tests to make me a confident woman,and even if they dont care,i do.  PORSCHER: here in Q8>> ppl: they are so great.. family: every 1 wants to be in ur place.. friend: always the best.. :)  sk8ergrl03: If we are talking about neighbors and such well they dont hate me well not all of them anyway and the others seems to adore me. My one neighbor, David has told me and my family many times that he loves me. Now my neighbor Adrienne has told em and my family he hates me because Im loud and I scream obscenities at him. I cant help it! My family all love me and I love them too... well sometimes.  Guest Shadow Cat: Life is a mystery to me. I'm surronded my darkness but instead of seeing only darkness I look for the light. I learned in life that you have to move forward no matter what happens. Looking in the past wil do you no good but I could bring back a lot of good memorys as well as the bad. The shadow that surrounds me was cause by myself. In order to find the way out you must trust your heart and soul and if will be your guide. Have a Great Year Nick and Good Lucky  mustlivetodie: As a child, I knew nothing more about this world except it's pleasures materialistic features, but as I have grown, my perspectives has changed to see what the face of this other really is. I really hate this world, and I find many faults in it: the darkness, the evil deeds of people that surround me, even myself. When I see what I have done, I likewise disdain my acts of foolishness and sin. But, recently, I have learned otherwise. It started at the end of my junior year, and progressed into the past summer of 2002. This summer has been the best, and has changed my look on life. I give myself a new view: In every speck of darkness comes a little shining light, radiating forever un-smothered by the surroundings darkness. This summer has changed me, and continues to do so as the year goes on.  thug_bunny: I don't like alot of people I know. But I think thats just the social structure of Highschool. Not many people love me or hate me, they sdon't have the time, and likewise. I stick with the people I know and love and everyones happy...  If you were to give up something in your life right at this moment, what would it be? (19 answers)  paco_santano: I would stop being single  artsymodel: ANEMIA!!! teehee...not what you were looking for, was it?  HeavenlieAllie: if it was possible i would give up the way i talk.. i have a slight stutter and lisp.. >.< and it sucks  seashelle: I'd have to give up my anxiety. I could live without being stressed and sensitive about everything. Then I could be happy and I could help other people instead of being frightened  confusedchild: umm..that would probably be my insecurity, or my falling into love too easily or my taking everything for granted..or my being happy, then sad, then happy again etc..problems..lol  GeorgieBaby333: my depression...okay I know that's like impossible so...as in material things...my old cds. Some of my clothes. My stuffed animals, my books I don't read anymore...actually, that is what I'm giving up, for needy people this christmas  dancefreak: I'LL give my life  prettygurl200616: if i had to give one thing up i would chose my computer because its just making us fat just siting here and loking a a screan all day  ~gothic_gyrll~: i would give up my life for my lil bro who has acute lukemia  sweetlikecandy05: I would give up my life for anyone cause give my family and friends a chance to live and to keep on living till the end of time cause they mean the world to me...rather let myself die then them  kinkysilversky: My life for the blind child.  PORSCHER: anything i don't need  morrigirl: Nothing. I had to give up my boyfriend when he killed himself over a month ago. I think I've paid my dues. From here on in I don't owe the cosmos shit!  ~SugaBaybi~: SKEWL!!!  PabloHibiki: Give up as in a choice? Perhaps school.  Guest Shadow Cat: if i am to give something up in my life it will be my life. I could never give my friends, family, and pets. They are the dearest to me and i rather day for anyone of them.  mustlivetodie: How about: What won't I give up? I have 2 basic things I won't give up: Family and Friends. Obviously, the family is of utmost importance, and I have lived through different experiences to become the odd person that I am today. Now, what makes a difference are the friends. Friends are just as important in my life. I value friendships beyond belief. I take them into very serious consideration, and I set them as first priority. Nothing precedes friendships. To lose a friend is to to kill a part of me. Most of the time, I do my best to be a good friend, and NEVER will I give up a friend. But, if I give up someone/something, it'll be myself. Not that I give up on myself, but that I give up my life for someone elses, or I give up my time to someone else. I will always try to lay down my own tasks and give up my time/work/life to someone else. I believe that that is the way to go.  Which is better: Coke or Pepsi? Why? (21 answers)  kate1717: yea i agree with the one 2 down from me..pepsi has more "zing"  gayguyinsussex: coke, it tastes nicer  artsymodel: Pepsi--it has more zing to it.  seashelle: pepsi. coke leaves an after taste  confusedchild: both..lol i have no idea i like both..whoa weird ?..lol jp  sweetsecret: Pepsi it is sweeter.  GeorgieBaby333: I'm leaning more towards Coke these days because they just came out with Diet Vanilla Coke (I'm diabetic). The main difference is Coke has more carbonation than Pepsi.  prettygurl200616: pepsi b/c it tast better  ~gothic_gyrll~: coke better falvor and more choices  kinkysilversky: coke has more choices and flavors?Or as long both are substance that keep my sweet tooth satisfied  crazybeautiful16: Coke, I have so many reasons why its better please dont make me list em all!  ~SugaBaybi~: Coke... don';t ask why! i've just drang it since i was a lil youn'g!  thedistrictcat: OMG it has to be Pepsi or cherry Coke :-)  PORSCHER: pepsi.. coke is full of steam  Guest Shadow Cat: Pepsi of course you stupid...j/k. Pepsi taste a lot better than Coke. Coke has a kind of bland flavor that I don't like.  mustlivetodie: If you can tell the difference, you might be a picky eater. No, just kidding. I can tell no difference because they're both sodas. I like sodas, and I've piled myself with too much junk food. I know that they're bad for me, yet I continue on to abuse my health. What a horrible things to do!!!  thug_bunny: Pepsi, I personally think it tastes better....  For the couples: If I were to ask your mate how he/she feels about your relationship together, how would he/she answer? (8 answers)  msalancarver: he would say that somtimes i nag him but he loves me to death and i am always there for him no matter what and we have a great sex life  CuperShic: he would say im frustrating, but i make him feel good about himself. If he said anything at all. Hed prolly not, cause hes a more quiet type. All mysterious <3  seashelle: I wanted to answer all of your questions but I can't answer this one because i've never had a bofriend. :(  confusedchild: aw if only i could answer this..lol but the guy i like and likes me but i just cant handle a relationship with him now.. lol he would prolly say what hes told me..that he loves me and im fun pretty outgoing but also shy when its needed, and i have very pretty eyes oh and im not fat..lol  GeorgieBaby333: he he...currently I have none...but my ex would probably say I was weird, a bit annyoing, smart, and fun to be around  mytruelove: It's Margareth~ Hehehe.... He'd say he really loves me, and that I mean so much to him ^^ (seriously!!)  thug_bunny: Good question! I'd really like to know that myself!  How do you deal with people whom you dislike or even, sometimes, hate? (16 answers)  artsymodel: Or I'll just think about disliking them. I'm in a weird situation right now with my friends. See, I like this one guy and I'm pretty sure she does too. She has a much better chance of going out with him. He made out with her. I've always been jealous of their friendship. I like him so much and she's one of my better friends. And sometimes just her presence makes me a little irritated. I don't know. There seems to be something about me that she ccan't stand too. Once she asked me something about our assignment and I felt like ripping her fake head off the next minute.  artsymodel: I usually avoid them. occasionally i will get too mad at them and kind of be mean and nice at the same time. it's hard to explain.  seashelle: I ignore them and avoid them. If I can't do that, I deal with them as politely as possible so they will go away.  confusedchild: i tri to ignore thiem, or make things better between us, or i just go take a long shower and think about what to do..lol i tri to avoid conferentation...lol or fights..=D  GeorgieBaby333: Hate them and plot revenge...he he no, I just try to ignore them, but most of the time I hide from them or have people defend me...I really hate the people who hate me cause I love The Beatles...Aquarius has very good taste in music and entertainment so F*CK YOU!!! lol :)  ~gothic_gyrll~: i don't deal wit them i ignore then and live on  kinkysilversky: Simply block your self froom them,we can all do it.Look at them from a higher level  PORSCHER: i stay away from them  crazybeautiful16: I learn to forgive them  morrigirl: Fuck with their minds as much and as often as possible.  punkrockforever: I simply don't talk to them, or say as little as I have to. I don't need to get back at them or anything. I never hate or dislike anyone unless they have done something really bad to me. I don't need to talk to or even be around people who don't respect me, and i don't show them the respect that I would normally give them.  Guest Shadow Cat: It depends on who it is.......if it is a girl, ingore her she'll get bored and go away....if it is a guy and bug you, you punch him :) or you can just ingore him  mustlivetodie: The first thing NOT to do is show them that you hate them. You can let them know that you aren't quite comfortable with them, but don't hate them. Everyone can be friends, it just depends how close or far you are. I tend to tolerate a whole range of things, and that's the way I am. I like to make friends with everyone, and if I dislike what someone does, I'll tell him that, but I won't dislike the person usually. If I dislike the person, I still assist him, but I just don't tell him what I'd tell my closer friends. I'd retain my privacy etc. I don't ignore people. That's just being rude, and doing that makes you nothing better. Anyways, I feel that the best way to deal with them is to treat them as if they were your friends. In doing that, you'll really end up making him a friend, instead of disliking him, but, more importantly, you'll learn more about yourself and your own flaws by examining the faults of others and making sure that you don't do the same.  thug_bunny: simple, every time they anoy you, tell them to piss off... or if you have to be nice, just grin stupidly as though you care what they think.  What does love mean to you, and why? (12 answers)  seashelle: Love is finding someone to spend your whole life with. Love is being there for some one through thick and thin. Love is thinking of some one else first.  confusedchild: love means heartbreak eventually unfortunate to say, but true..but what does love really mean to me aside from that?...the greatest feeling...that closeness, and that wonderful connection between you and that one person, someone uyou think about all the time, someone you feel differently for than anyone else in your life, someone so special to you you would do almost anything for them...the rest is just unexplainable, how it feels so good to be in their arms, and just to be with them is great..  GeorgieBaby333: Hell, more than any material thing...I would give up all my things just to have someone love me the way I love them...God, I mean I am a very emotional person so...  ~gothic_gyrll~: love means a lot to me but am incapable of really loving anyone right now life is to confusing (cept maybe my bf) =/  sweetlikecandy05: theres lots of things to desribe love...its the most amazing and increable feeling in the world...you know that the person you love will always be there when you need a shoulder to cry on..they know how to make you laugh and smile when your down..love is the greatest thing to have cause without it where would we be...everyone needs love in thier lifes to be happy and knowing someone cares and loves them...you feel stronger and happier knowing the peron you love is beside you every step of the way...sometimes love can be blind but thats just the way it goes...its a good thing to go thru but it can also be the hardest thing to go thru....its that special bond you have with someone....its when you can't breath without them in your life cause thier the air that you breath...love is the main key to happeness  PORSCHER: love is pain... never been loved :P j/k.... i dunno!! it is somthing with ur heart and the one u love.. i think!!  crazybeautiful16: Love means a lot to me, i think its a priority, I think that if I learn to love everyone and everything around me, it will be easier for me to be loved, and to appreciate things.  Guest Shadow Cat: There are a lot of different kind of love and you don't know what each one of them mean unless you being love like that before. So I can't say that I know what the whole meaning of love mean. But then again maybe you do Nick.  mustlivetodie: Ok...Nick. As an expert, you know far beyond my knowledge of love. In fact, my meanings have now come from your defintions. If I knew the answer to the question, I don't think I would have failed my first experience. Now, my answer isn't even of significance any more. Regardless, I think that love can separate into 3 types: Family, Friends, and Lovers. The family love is one such that NOT only does the blood bind them, but also their relations in growing together. A family's love comes from caring and responsibility. It is very important, and the powers of it are obvious to some, oblivious to others. Then comes friendship love. Friends can love one another by taking FULL responsibility of a friend, and not being a pass-by-today type person. It is one to have a friend, as a regular friend, but another to call him your close friend. You can care for him, do things for him, and be there to talk to him. But, those tasks are hard to achieve, and even harder on a grand scale. It's hard to be a good friend to everyone. Loving a friend is of very large significance. Sometimes, your one word can make a difference. Then comes lovers. This is the hardest to achieve because you have to not only gain trust, but to also gain spiritual binding love. Gaining trust is part of being a friend, but to gain that spiritual bind is hard. It takes time, effort, and patience. You have to be there when she needs you. You have to do your best to help her out. You have to take your time slowly, inch-by-inch, in understanding what she needs/wants. One of the most important things is that you have to be able to speak comfortably to her, and her to you. Happiness is always a part of love, and will, itself, come into existence when the time has come. Caring is another important aspect. To feel that someone actually is there to see how you do and what you feel is to change your world into one of reaity, not just dreams and fantasies. And, what may become of this is that your one word can change her actions. Your one word can change her world from a purposeless existence to one of importance. What does love mean to me? I don't really know. But, I can say that when love comes to me, I do my best to keep it. I try to make the most out of it. I try not to fail or cause dissapointment in it. I do all that I can to make it a meaningful part of my life, but more importantly, to make it an influential part of another's life.  thug_bunny: TO me, love means happiness, comfort, sex, ya know... the usual...  What is your ultimate goal in life? (14 answers)  Guest margareth: find my true love... *sigh*  seashelle: happiness, I mean. I can't spell. I have a new goal: happiness and being able to spell. :)  seashelle: hapiness  confusedchild: =( i wish i had one..i know i have the potential to do anything i really wanted to set my life towards doing, i just dont know what it is yet..=( i havent explored the world yet ya know?? =)  sweetsecret: To change the world.  GeorgieBaby333: to fall in love, to become, after being a starving artist for quite some time, to be a successful artist/writer/director/singer/musician with my sister, Kelly. (K&K Studios is going to be our company) And then I want to have AT LEAST 4 kids, and watch them grow up and teach them lessons I learned in life. And teach them musical instruments, and teach them to be devoted Beatlemaniacs!!!  ~gothic_gyrll~: go to collage be a nurse get maried and have 3 kids  sweetlikecandy05: to meet my soul mate...find the perfect job and the perfect house....live my life the way I want to and live it the fullest it and enjoy it.....try to help out others and be there for them  PORSCHER: to be a police officer but wtf!! who cares now? ama be a P.E. teacher now.. and i love it :)  Guest Shadow Cat: My ultimate goal is help my family, friends, and pet to find there happiness and stay there.  mustlivetodie: An ultimate goal? Naw...Several ultimate goals. I have 3 basic categories for my goals: 1. To Become A Succesful Computer Progammar, Teacher, Or A Professional At Least Within The Fields Of Mathematics, Computer Science, Electrical Engineering, Or Mechanical Engineering; 2. To Be A Good Friend Forever To Most, If Not Everyone; 3. Most Importantly, To Have A Successful Relationship, Be A Good Husband, And Be A Good Father. Now, for those that know me, computer programming has ALWAYS been my course of study. I've ALWAYS wanted to be a programmer, and I hope to become one in the future. I've studied Visual Basic since 7th grade, and now, I know several programming languages: DHTML, Visual Basic, Javascript, and C++. I can't say that I'm a complete expert at each one, but I have a pretty decent knowledge of each one. If anyone gave me a project, I WOULD THINK that time would only be the factor, though it just might be that I'm not good enough for the project. Secondly, to be the best friend I can be. That has been an on-going goal in my life. I've failed in certain friendships, and some that have seen my AIM profile know that I've gone through some problems before. Regardless, I still try to be the best friend possible. I do what I can MANY TIMES without question for any friend. I've taken time to tutor people and many other things. I always try to be there when people need me, and I always feel bad when I'm not there. Last and most important of all is a succesful relationship. Part of this goal comes from what I see in my grandfather. I am, basically, an image of my grandfather, and I don't want that because my grandfather has 2 wives, and he messed up the family. He wasn't that great of a husband, and he was not very responsible. He didn't take his duty as a father well either. Because my I am, in many respects, an image of my grandfather, I intend to change that. I don't want to be a failure in these important aspects. I want to be a good husband. I want to love my wife and give in to her wants/needs. I want her to know that I am what I intend to be. I want her to know that I am faithful and loyal to her and that I care a lot about her. I want to also be a good father. I want to take my responsibilities as a father and do my best to be a good example, though I have many flaws. I want my children to live honest, truthful lives, and for them to love the family, not disdain the troubles. I admit that these 3 goals are extremely hard to achieve, but, even though I'm not married, I am doing and will continue to do my best in these 3 categories.  thug_bunny: I'm 14... I'm too young to be thinking about that... all I know is that I want to be rich and happy! Last 10 Questions Posted BrianLovesShair: why do people have to piss me off iBoy2G: 6/19: Cat Prayer: Now I lay she down to sleep I pray the Lord my cat to keep, if she dies before I wake I pray the Lord my cat to take! DisguisedSavior: Do you think it'll be possible to reverse engineer the phenotypes of an organism to derive functionally similar genetic code? (i.e., take our knowledge of T-rex, and figure out what kind of genetic code it'd take to recreate it.) Jigsaws_Best_Friend: Are you leaving footprints all over town? Jigsaws_Best_Friend: Are you laughing hard with the windows down? Jigsaws_Best_Friend: Do you have the world at your feet and you know everything about everything? Jigsaws_Best_Friend: Do you think that you know me? Jigsaws_Best_Friend: Were you looking for this? Jigsaws_Best_Friend: Did you trade pennies and dimes for a kiss? Jigsaws_Best_Friend: Did you trade your soul for a wish?

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