I still remember high school. Both the good times and the bad. And, growing up as a homosexual teen, I clearly remember the experience and ordeal of coming out to family and friends. It's a time that I don't think will soon be forgotten, and one I would rather not live through again.

Before going to Univeristy, I admit I didn't really know what to expect. I stayed in the work force for a few years after high school, and sexuality never came up as I avoided personal relationships with many of my co-workers. Sure, it meant I didn't make very many friends during that time, but it also meant I didn't know how I was supposed to act about my sexuality when I finally decided to go University.

I knew it wouldn't be like high school. By the time most people go to University, they have had at least some experience with homosexuality, as well as a more mature approach to life. There was no dread of immature, fear-driven responses. So, I simply decided to not hide it, and not make it an issue. It's worked out great. Most everyone I know at University knows I'm gay, usually through comments I make at lunch. It occasionally stirs up a question or an "I had no idea" comment, but it's never become a big deal.

The amount of support available it unbelievable. Pride Centre's can run quite large, and gay student populations are much more predominent than in high school. Despite the increased visibility, levels of intolerance are usually low; I think people are just more mature about things when they go to University.

If these are going to be the people running countries and companies in the next few decades, I'm glad to see such an accepting attitude. And to anyone who's concerned about going to University, don't be. It's an amazing atmosphere with so much to do, learn and experience, and your biggest worries will be your classes and exams, not people's reaction to your sexuality.

Make the best of it!

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